It was prom night and there was this girl I was starting to get into(I have her number and talked with her a little bit before prom happened) Anyways we danced and talked for a bit and we kind of went are separate ways that night, then I see her with this other guy walking around holding hands with her(she's single.) I'm like whatever and continued to dance with other girls and hanged with the bros. Well after prom ended I we said are goodbyes and before we left I ended up talking again and she told me that she needed to talk to me and to text her, so I did and asked why she wanted to talk and she was like "the whole thing with the guy was unplanned" I was trying to uncover why she told me this but she kept giving simple responses like idk. So at the end I told her she was making no sense and "said we talked, bye". and she responded "Wow? K. Bye." I am kind of noobish when it comes to this stuff, so what the heck was going on and did I screw something up?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girls can be so confusing.
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