Girl's boyfriend threatening

[lizardking82]

Let's say there's a situation with a certain girl where she gets into an argument with you, she pussies out and decides to tell her boyfriend you "offended her" and now this ******* turns to you, threatening you. How do you handle it?

 

[Billtx49]

Different situations require different responses and/or actions. Give a definite example.

 

[lizardking82]

I made a mocking Facebook post. She comments telling me "You post nothing positive, just negative things". Something that is untrue and I kinda tried to have a discussion, but she ended up moralising me about it and I told her she was breaking my balls. She then proceeds to write to me in Messenger telling me to withdraw what I said and hinted at involving her boyfriend in this, this stupid **** LOL we had a quarrel on Messenger, then I sent her packing. A couple of minutes later, a friend request comes from this guy, which I rejected.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Pull the fight Club seen out, say hit me and just laugh in his face hysterically.

I've done this several times the past couple years and it always works for me.

Of course never do anything to escalate chit further. The key is to stay grounded and stay in defense mode to people threatening you.

Getting hit isn't all that bad..
the moment he touches you first you win.
Make him realize how much of a pvssy he's being for being so low he/she has to resort to violence.

You can say things like..

Your so butt hurt your gonna hit me? Get the fvck out of here,( and point at the door.) Fine then go ahead. Hit me pvssy, see what happens. I'll kill your family, rape your grandma, fvck your dog.. etc

Get the fvck out of here you stupid ignorant fvck, people come here to have fun and overreative pieces of chit like you ruin it for everyone. Just ****ing leave faggot.

Go get the bouncers and say theres an agro male trying to get violent.

Sounds stupid, a huge part of fear for me going to nightclubs and bars is dealing with other guys being so bold to think they can engage in violence with me cause their cvnt is crying. I plan to just over blow every situation I get myself into like yours because (my nerves and adrenaline spikes so much to act cool) i really fvcking hate that about myself.

I hope one day I can be absolutly chill and calm when that sort of **** happens to me.

Calling moutherfvckers out for thinking they can act like that around strangers is important for your self confidence.

 

[Dingo]

Don't waste your time with crazy toxic people...

Just block and ignore them both....

 

[Billtx49]

If it's not IRL, disregard that crap. She may have anger issues… or you were a D. Regardless, people often twist your words into a different meaning than you intended when sent electronically.

 

[lizardking82]

Yep, blocked them both. I was not a D, but she's the type apparently that wants to involve her boyfriend when she can;t handle a discussion she started on her own.

 

[Billtx49]

Yep, blocked them both. I was not a D, but she's the type apparently that wants to involve her boyfriend when she can;t handle a discussion she started on her own.

Victim mentality on the hoof..…

 

[lizardking82]

Victim mentality on the hoof..…

On me or on her? I didn't get it

 

[Billtx49]

On me or on her? I didn't get it

Hers of course

 

[lizardking82]

Would James Bond make mocking Facebook posts?

Point is, the goal of a Don Juan is to increase the quality of his life - from upping the quality of people he associates with, to always doing what he can to increase his income, to helping others in need.

Let the popped collar, skinny jeans, colored sunglass wearing fraternity boys have the low quality, drama-inducing women.

You're better than this, @lizardking82

I agree.

 

[Reykhel]

I made a mocking Facebook post. She comments telling me "You post nothing positive, just negative things". Something that is untrue and I kinda tried to have a discussion, but she ended up moralising me about it and I told her she was breaking my balls. She then proceeds to write to me in Messenger telling me to withdraw what I said and hinted at involving her boyfriend in this, this stupid **** LOL we had a quarrel on Messenger, then I sent her packing. A couple of minutes later, a friend request comes from this guy, which I rejected.

You spend too much time on the internet.

Get out of the fvcking house. And shave.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Would James Bond make mocking Facebook posts?

Point is, the goal of a Don Juan is to increase the quality of his life - from upping the quality of people he associates with, to always doing what he can to increase his income, to helping others in need.

Let the popped collar, skinny jeans, colored sunglass wearing fraternity boys have the low quality, drama-inducing women.

You're better than this, @lizardking82

Goat post. Goat response. God bless you

 

[lizardking82]

You spend too much time on the internet.

Get out of the fvcking house. And shave.

Meh, I used to, not so much anymore. I work online and I use social media here and there. I spend averagely 6-7 hours outside of the house, working, connecting, flirting, etc. That's an old pic.

 

[devilkingx2]

on the internet? play tough guy and tell them to fvck off so you can keep banging their mom

IRL? play coy, put your hands up, take a step back, and say "woah man I'm not looking for any trouble" but prepare yourself for a fight if it comes down to throwing some hands

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I had it happen a few times before, but I was a lot younger (was still afc) and it wasn't necessarily a 'boyfriend' per se. Now nothing ever happens because I know how to handle this stuff, but if it ever does happen again, I'd prolly just make fun of the dude's manliness. Like "So your're her b!tch instead of the other way around. Grab hold of your balls dude and don't listen to her" or maybe "your girl is out of control, put her back in her place". I would not be afraid to fight though even if the guy is bigger than me.

 

[SmooveMooves]

I find the average joe is a pūssy and is not really going to do anything. As a DJ you should have security in the fact that you can handle yourself. Are you in the gym? If not, you should be. You should look like you can't be fūcked with and carry yourself that way too. Confidence you gain in the gym leaks over to your conversation and demeanor. Unless her boyfriend is a body builder that girl would have never threatened me with her boyfriend because she would know I'd kick his ass.

Size = respect

but

Respect also = respect so I'm sure in retrospect you could have handled the arguement between you two better.

 

[lizardking82]

I find the average joe is a pūssy and is not really going to do anything. As a DJ you should have security in the fact that you can handle yourself. Are you in the gym? If not, you should be. You should look like you can't be fūcked with and carry yourself that way too. Confidence you gain in the gym leaks over to your conversation and demeanor. Unless her boyfriend is a body builder that girl would have never threatened me with her boyfriend because she would know I'd kick his ass.

Size = respect

but

Respect also = respect so I'm sure in retrospect you could have handled the arguement between you two better.

I will be in the gym in about two week's time. This girl has never seen me live, though, I think it just pissed her off that I called her out on her bull**** publically. But you and everyone else saying I should and could have handled it better are quite right about it. This is one of the things I am working on in myself: not inciting conflict and avoiding it with elegance where that's doable. I usually do not have any conflicts that can go physical with people in general as I am a peaceful person, but sometimes **** happens. I am going to the gym with a personal trainer, though, and that, I think, will give me confidence even in the physical aspect of things.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Martial arts can help you in many ways. It will give you more control over yourself, and also help you avoid conflicts by having a quiet, yet confident attitude.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Martial arts can help you in many ways. It will give you more control over yourself, and also help you avoid conflicts by having a quiet, yet confident attitude.

Why is that so? Everyone I know (including myself) used to think that they were so strong and could beat everyone up until they actually get into a gym and got strong. And everyone I know who started to do REAL martial arts/self defense felt the same way until they got skillful at it. Once they got good, THEN they start to have respect for people. Why is it like that?