"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls Bending Over

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LoneSilver

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Interesting.

Yesterday this girl who works in the bakery saw me walk in and when I looked over her way to notice her with a smile I went on with my business then a few minutes later after leaving the fruits and veggie area I look up and here she is walking toward me from the otherside of the store and when she got close she has this nice smile on her face and I smiled back and asked how she was doing as she was walking by but to my surprise she didn't answer.

What does that mean and the smile looked like she was into me but she didn't answer. Now we're not talking about a hot 10 here maybe a 5 or 6 but her confidence is very attractive and hot the way she carries herself.

Reckon she hates my guts or shes just shy in not responding to my question of interest or she was keeping with store policy always smile at customers?

LoneSilver

blinkwatt said:
Alright let me tell you something since I work in a grocery store. If an employee pops up in your line of site and just happens to come by you everytime then they are checking you out.
 
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