“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girls Bending Over

LoneSilver

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Lately I have been seeing things I don't think are my mind playing tricks on me.

The other day when I walked into the food store this one girl that seems to always pop up in my view whenever I come in there seemed to be sending me a message by bending her ass over while she supposely was working on dating food items just as I approach the area. She seems to always either walk in front of me or happens to try and get my attention but not by say looking at me or smiling but in another way like I mention.

Now a completely different lady today at a CVS store happen to be bending over while supposely doing something with a snowman but her ass was bending in a way that she needed maintanance and when I walked by she remained bend over until I walked by but what a nice ass she had and this lady seems to do this everytime I come in there.

My question is, is this something women do to get our attention or want to screw us and do women who have given you the cold shoulder in the past start walking by you is this a clue that they might be interested or want you to start talking again with them?


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LoneSilver
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yes i do look...but i dont go into deep thoughts about analyzing their actions to see if im getting hit on at CVS.

Stop analyzing and go talk.
 

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Its a tricky one.

The French psychologist Lacan theorised that men only get satisfaction (jouissance) out of phallic stimuli. Basically when it comes to sex we need to get some action.

Lacan however suggested that women (who can also get phallic pleasure) can also get sexual gratification simply from being desired.

Google Lacan and Jouissance if you wanna read more.

So basically chicks get off on knowing you want them. Thats why so many PU tactics are designed to leave a woman in doubt about your intentions. The trick is to only giving out phallic "jouissance" for the obvious reasons.

So to answer your questions:

yes she is flaunting herself.
yes she wants you to hit on her.

as for if she wants phallic jouissance as opposed to chick jouissance... well thats up to you...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No, you are not analyzing this too deep. In fact, you are not analyzing this deep enough.

You have measure the angle the legs make with the body. If she is bending over at exactly 113.45 degrees, she wants you. Anything higher or lower, she will blow you off.
 

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Oh-oh I see, so I am a pervert.

I will have to change my thought patterns and stop my oversexed mind from wondering.

LoneSilver:yawn:


Charm&Style said:
yes i do look...but i dont go into deep thoughts about analyzing their actions to see if im getting hit on at CVS.

Stop analyzing and go talk.
 

LoneSilver

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Now this is the post I like to read lol!! I have taken notes :rockon:

LoneSilver

spesmilitis said:
No, you are not analyzing this too deep. In fact, you are not analyzing this deep enough.

You have measure the angle the legs make with the body. If she is bending over at exactly 113.45 degrees, she wants you. Anything higher or lower, she will blow you off.
 

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Cool and very interesting I'll have to read this Lacan and Jouissance.

Thanks

LoneSilver :yes:



Jay Jay said:
The French psychologist Lacan theorised that men only get satisfaction (jouissance) out of phallic stimuli. Basically when it comes to sex we need to get some action.

Lacan however suggested that women (who can also get phallic pleasure) can also get sexual gratification simply from being desired.

Google Lacan and Jouissance if you wanna read more.

So basically chicks get off on knowing you want them. Thats why so many PU tactics are designed to leave a woman in doubt about your intentions. The trick is to only giving out phallic "jouissance" for the obvious reasons.

So to answer your questions:

yes she is flaunting herself.
yes she wants you to hit on her.

as for if she wants phallic jouissance as opposed to chick jouissance... well thats up to you...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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no i agree with you. i had an old managaer at my first job, she knew i wanted her, because word spread. plus i think she could tell just by what i would tell her, she would even flirt with me a little, and i think she got off on it, but she was married. anyways, there were times when she was doing this very thing to me.

i've also had women bend over so i could see their cleavage, this is not a revelation.
 

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Okay, so these women are bending over and checking something out? And you just pass by? How about you shuffle up next them and ask them what's so interesting?
 
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A very astute observation DJ Lonely Silverware, Yes, hors do bend over to get a man's attention - they are very aware that pimps are cognizant of their formly shaped buttocks - thus they display their wares in it's most developed shapely pimp-recognizable state - thus "the bendover" move!!! But sadly to report, sometimes they are just bending over because the task at hand requires them to bend over. It's a matter of perspective!
 

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Alright let me tell you something since I work in a grocery store. If an employee pops up in your line of site and just happens to come by you everytime then they are checking you out.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
What would happen if you were to pat her butt and say you thought you saw a fly on her a$$?
LOL....sounds like something id like to do for kicks...

As you pass by, kick her in the ass....and when she asks "why'd you do that?!" say "It looked like you were asking for it:cool: ".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Happens a lot to me too. I just breathe in the sexual moment and enjoy the energy. When I find myself talking to the chicks, the air of sexual tension is definitely present. But I also notice that a lot of times, women do it IMO, like Jay Jay said, for their own little satisfaction. I like to think of it as women having a nice mind sex quickie. And most of the time, because of social courtesy and norms, they don't expect - and usually don't even want - you to pick up on them at that very moment. It's like you just caught the chick mentally masturbating LOL.
The same little instinct that makes women fantasize throughout the day about different strangers? Yup, you were one of the tens, if not hundreds, of them that day. Now, you can pick up on them alright, obviously (and of course if this whole THEORY is really true LOL) if they're already physically interested in you, but DO take note: Her little bend over procedure must not be your pass to act like a porn star. Game on as is customary. Keep it light, fun, witty, flirty, all that. Just remember, you DID see the chick bend over. And she KNOWS you did too.

Game accordingly.
 

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this reminds me of when I was trying to hit on this one chick. She was cleaning up a room and I was following behind her (creepy huh). Well, she just kept bending over and covering her back like I was really trying to look at her in a sexually disgusting way :D. Then there was the girls in highscool oh my god. They showed their as5es so much it was ridiculous. Then they tried to pull down their shirts.
 

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Thanks for all the great answers some were funny lol!

Maybe I'll flirt back and smile real big the next time I have to go in there which reminds me I need to pick up some buns for my hotdog lol!!

LoneSilver
 

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LoneSilver said:
Maybe I'll flirt back and smile real big the next time I have to go in there which reminds me I need to pick up some buns for my hotdog lol!!
Hahahaha I got one for ya! Next time the grocery store chick bends down to show you her hinnie go up to her and say "Hey do you know where I can find a set of buns",have a smirk on your face that would be pretty funny. Now you better pretend like your buying some hot dogs and buns,otherwise it might not turn out well.
 

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When she bend's over start howling and yell- It's a full moon tonight!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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