"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls being Rebellious

Rainman4707

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If they are'nt getting their own way they say something like "well I'm just going to go out by myself"

As I've said numerous times on here. If I was spinning plates then this kind of behaviour wouldn't bother me, but if I'm in a relationship & a girl behaved like this then I'd be pis*sed off as I see it as unacceptable behaviour.

I was speaking to a girl who behaved in this manner & she is in a relationship. She said it was just her being rebellious & she would of most likely just had one drink in a bar by herself feeling awkward then leave.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rainman4707 said:
If they are'nt getting their own way they say something like "well I'm just going to go out by myself"

As I've said numerous times on here. If I was spinning plates then this kind of behaviour wouldn't bother me, but if I'm in a relationship & a girl behaved like this then I'd be pis*sed off as I see it as unacceptable behaviour.

I was speaking to a girl who behaved in this manner & she is in a relationship. She said it was just her being rebellious & she would of most likely just had one drink in a bar by herself feeling awkward then leave.
What if she was just doing a lot of GNO's ( Girl Night Out ) with female friends?
 

Between_The_Lines

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Rainman4707 said:
If they are'nt getting their own way they say something like "well I'm just going to go out by myself"
Lack of respect for the guy and unafraid of losing him, that's what that's all about. Try to imagine a woman with a deep sense of admiration and attraction for her man telling him "I don't have to take this sh1t!", defiantly storming away from him in a fit of rage and contempt with a sense of determination to even the score. Possible? Of course. Probable? No, highly unlikely.

Rainman4707 said:
I was speaking to a girl who behaved in this manner & she is in a relationship. She said it was just her being rebellious & she would of most likely just had one drink in a bar by herself feeling awkward then leave.
Right, and she would "never ever cheat", and if she ever did, surely it "just happened", or her boyfriend "forced" her to by neglecting her "needs", or she was "severely depressed" and wasn't "in the right state of mind", or some psychic warned her of "something strange" taking place in the future, meaning it was "out of her control" blah blah blah ad nauseaum. Watch what she does, not what she says. Take the hamster's rationalizations at face value and you will surely pay the price, sooner or later.
 

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Once you have a girl that is all in for yoy and knows you are willing to split at the first sign of bull**** you will be shocked what lenghths they will go to in order to make things work out.
 

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johnywhite17 said:
Once you have a girl that is all in for yoy and knows you are willing to split at the first sign of bull**** you will be shocked what lenghths they will go to in order to make things work out.
Bingo.

When you put girls in their place, they usually flip the logic switch very quick and will definitely try to fix things up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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