"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls At coffee stores

victor22

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HEy Guys

Giveme Some advices,

How do you pick up girls from coffee stores and book stores.

bye
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SinisaD

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Read "The DJ Bible" in the top right corner of this site. It's gona give you more then "pickin up girls at bookstores + coffee shops". That's my recommendation, tho I do have one question. Did you try using the search function of this site for the question you just asked??? Because I think it has been already brought up quite a few times.

JC i was expecting a lil bit more then a "lol" from you :D


-Sinisa
 

Skydiver43127

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Heck, who needs to read the DJ Bible!? It's so damn long... There is a very simple and foolproof way to pick up girls at bookstores.

1. Go to the "magazines" section. Look for "adult magazines".
2. Pick up the girl you like.
3. Go home and enjoy.

I'm such a genius! Just wait for my "How to pick up girls on the Internet" guide. :D
 

lebRambo

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picking up girls at coffee stores is a NO BRAINER. honestly, you just start talking about what you see around you. coffee, its aroma, what you like about it, etc. this should be a walk in the park for anyone with a pair.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anomalous

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victor22 your question is too general. There so many aspects in "picking up" a girl. Theres been books written on it, do you think you'll get the answer in a few sentences? This all takes work.

Why is this in the Don Juan Tips?

CLOSE
 

LittleElf

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Just spill some really hot coffee on a girl that you like. The girlies love that kind of thing. :cool:
 

white cloud 8

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Originally posted by LittleElf
Just spill some really hot coffee on a girl that you like. The girlies love that kind of thing. :cool:
aim for their eyes, they really love that :crackup:
 

bullmoose

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Try this:

Whatever she orders, make a note of it, then walk up to her and say,

"Double Vanilla Nonfat Split-Shot? (or whatever her drink is) You must really be into anal."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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