"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls At coffee stores

victor22

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HEy Guys

Giveme Some advices,

How do you pick up girls from coffee stores and book stores.

bye
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SinisaD

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Read "The DJ Bible" in the top right corner of this site. It's gona give you more then "pickin up girls at bookstores + coffee shops". That's my recommendation, tho I do have one question. Did you try using the search function of this site for the question you just asked??? Because I think it has been already brought up quite a few times.

JC i was expecting a lil bit more then a "lol" from you :D


-Sinisa
 

Skydiver43127

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Heck, who needs to read the DJ Bible!? It's so damn long... There is a very simple and foolproof way to pick up girls at bookstores.

1. Go to the "magazines" section. Look for "adult magazines".
2. Pick up the girl you like.
3. Go home and enjoy.

I'm such a genius! Just wait for my "How to pick up girls on the Internet" guide. :D
 

lebRambo

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picking up girls at coffee stores is a NO BRAINER. honestly, you just start talking about what you see around you. coffee, its aroma, what you like about it, etc. this should be a walk in the park for anyone with a pair.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anomalous

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victor22 your question is too general. There so many aspects in "picking up" a girl. Theres been books written on it, do you think you'll get the answer in a few sentences? This all takes work.

Why is this in the Don Juan Tips?

CLOSE
 

LittleElf

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Just spill some really hot coffee on a girl that you like. The girlies love that kind of thing. :cool:
 

white cloud 8

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Originally posted by LittleElf
Just spill some really hot coffee on a girl that you like. The girlies love that kind of thing. :cool:
aim for their eyes, they really love that :crackup:
 

bullmoose

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Try this:

Whatever she orders, make a note of it, then walk up to her and say,

"Double Vanilla Nonfat Split-Shot? (or whatever her drink is) You must really be into anal."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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