"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl's asking for your number?

EverybodyPlaysAFool

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Okay, I'm sure this has happend to everyone on here at least once in their Don Juan career...but has anybody ever asked a girl if she wanted to hang out sometime and she said "Yeah, whats your number?" What the hell is that...that -ish through my whole game plan off...anyone got a good reversal for this move? Cause it happend to me last nite. I mean I ain't trippin to much cause I'm the prize here but I want to prepare for future situations that may have this delimma.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"Oh, I don't know the number out of the top of my head.. Why don't you give me yours.."

Remember though that you should have your phone on anonymous cuz sometimes she might say: Now you have my number, call me right now so I have yours.. :|
 

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I don't see what the big deal is with her having your number. She wants it, give it to her. Then say, "Sure, but you have to promise not to stalk me. I know it'll be hard, but try."

And if you eventually don't want to talk to her, store her number in your phone as "Dont answer" or some variation. And if she calls from someone else's phone, suck it up, take the call, say you can't talk, and store THAT number as "dont answer2". etc. etc.

Alexi
 

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Originally posted by sfalexi
I don't see what the big deal is with her having your number. She wants it, give it to her. Then say, "Sure, but you have to promise not to stalk me. I know it'll be hard, but try."

And if you eventually don't want to talk to her, store her number in your phone as "Dont answer" or some variation. And if she calls from someone else's phone, suck it up, take the call, say you can't talk, and store THAT number as "dont answer2". etc. etc.

Alexi
wtf is this? be a man not a little boy or girl who is interested in playing phone games.

anyways, a girl that asks for your number is interested in hanging out/keeping in contact with you. it doesn't mean anything else.
 

sfalexi

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Who's playing phone games? I simply offerred advice on how to take the "give me your number" comment.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Peep this...

Okay, I got the facts thanks fella's. Anyway, I guess it isn't a big deal if she has my number if she calls she calls if not, **** it! But I forgot to mention that she is Mexican and her english is not that great (which I find it to be attractive) and I know (considering that I am half Mexican) that Hispanic parents are strict especially with there daughters. Now I am not trying to make an excuse but now that I think about it...it makes sense as to why she wanted my number. Moving on...
 
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