Hey guys, Im doing pretty good right now with 4 girls on the go and a few more that I could give a run at. Anyways some have started to notice (ie text messages coming in, me always being busy doing something, too busy for them) that some have started to ask "are you a player" anyone have a good answer to that question.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girls asking "are you a player"
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Dont admit to being a player ever, even if you think you are. Admitting to being a player sounds cool to guys but no girl thinks its a good thing.
If you say yea im a player, even in a joking way she will either be turned off because she believes you or mock you later with her friends. Theres some self declared players at my high school who are made fun of becuase they think they are tight sh!t.
Just deny it.
"nah im not a player, i just keep a busy life"
its not witty or anything but it will come off as legit to her if you dont make it a joke. And hopefully she will stop wondering if you are.
nothing good can come from saying your a player so dont do it
If you say yea im a player, even in a joking way she will either be turned off because she believes you or mock you later with her friends. Theres some self declared players at my high school who are made fun of becuase they think they are tight sh!t.
Just deny it.
"nah im not a player, i just keep a busy life"
its not witty or anything but it will come off as legit to her if you dont make it a joke. And hopefully she will stop wondering if you are.
nothing good can come from saying your a player so dont do it
The best line that worked for me and it never failed me was:
Girl: "are you a player?"
Me: " I'm not a player but I got game..."
They are going to love that answer but once you lay that line you'r going to have to eventually back it up.
Girl: "are you a player?"
Me: " I'm not a player but I got game..."
They are going to love that answer but once you lay that line you'r going to have to eventually back it up.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Agreed. First off it goes beyond ****y cuz its arrogant and just plain big headed. Second, girls are just as afraid of getting played(if not more) like guys.john paul said:Dont admit to being a player ever, even if you think you are. Admitting to being a player sounds cool to guys but no girl thinks its a good thing.
If you say yea im a player, even in a joking way she will either be turned off because she believes you or mock you later with her friends. Theres some self declared players at my high school who are made fun of becuase they think they are tight sh!t.
Just deny it.
"nah im not a player, i just keep a busy life"
its not witty or anything but it will come off as legit to her if you dont make it a joke. And hopefully she will stop wondering if you are.
nothing good can come from saying your a player so dont do it
+1. Sounds like something that will work. Say it with a big smile, and don't try to be a smartass when saying it. How you say something is just as important as what you say. Many guys forget that, which is why witty comments and ****y humour does not work for them.DJDamage said:The best line that worked for me and it never failed me was:
Girl: "are you a player?"
Me: " I'm not a player but I got game..."
They are going to love that answer but once you lay that line you'r going to have to eventually back it up.
Saying it is as important as how you say it and how it flows out of your mouth.Axcell said:+1. Say it with a big smile, and don't try to be a smartass when saying it. How you say something is just as important as what you say. Many guys forget that, which is why witty comments and ****y humour does not work for them.
When you say stuff like "I'm not a player, but I got game" you got to be confident both in your delievery and in your demeanor. The first part "i"m not a player" you got to be serious and casual on this one but the second part you can be a little c0cky look her in the eye and watch for her reaction. She is probably going to smile/laugh (hopefully if you sounded convincing then not at you) and at which point you should do the same.
Fyi make sure you lower your voice in the end when you say "Game". I accidently one time raised my voice going from low pitched to high pitched in the end and it didn't sound like the word "game" and the girl started to laugh and say "what? did you say gay???". I was however able to repair the damage with my quick wit thankfuly so be careful of using canned lines if you are not a witty guy.
dont hate the player hate the game. No.....Im just in demand baby, busy, but I always make room for the good girls gone wild.
THIS IS A TEST PURE AND SIMPLE.............she is testing you.......dont scew it up.
possible responses:
-I'm not a player I am THE player
-Im not a player I am a PU artist
-what would make you say that, do I sound/act like a player (turn it around on them)
-whats your definition of a player, then use humor and rip on her answers
Dont fail the test........
THIS IS A TEST PURE AND SIMPLE.............she is testing you.......dont scew it up.
possible responses:
-I'm not a player I am THE player
-Im not a player I am a PU artist
-what would make you say that, do I sound/act like a player (turn it around on them)
-whats your definition of a player, then use humor and rip on her answers
Dont fail the test........
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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^^^ very true