Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girls ask why...

shagnscoob

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you dont want a girlfriend. in highschool they always paint this horrible picture of what a player is: "guys that dont want girlfriends basically just want to go around and hook up with whoever they want, whenever they want"

and then they say 'so why dont YOU want a girlfriend?'

obviously so i can hook up whoever i want whenever i want, but if i say that, ill lose one more girl to hook up with, i suspect.

whats a good way to tackle this question?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Antichrist_Star

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Tell them girlfriends cost too much mother****ing money. ;)

But seriously... just tell them the truth, they will mind a lot less than you think. ;)

For me personally... I don't like the idea of the girlfriend because of how much time you have to invest in one... and I barely have enough time to take care of my damn self.

AS
 

08aisaac

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Too true I wouldn't ever really want a gf unless she was the perfect gf you know so when you are trying to hook up with girls don't ever go the gf way to do it because that's a waste of time. But if a girl asks you why you want a gf tell her you don't.
 

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GIRL: "Why dont YOU want a girlfriend?"
SAMMO: "What makes you think that!? I've got 12 of them!"

OR

SAMMO: "Is this your way of asking me out on a date?"

Easiest way to get out of a question you dont want to answer is say something funny in response to it.
 
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