"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls as Friends

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God all my posts suck nothing for the community I mean, I'm just looking for some kind of advice from past experiences.


I know the whole friends thing is a no no but heres the situation:

I dated this girl for like 3 weeks, totally led me on then cut me down real fast with a friends speach. Basically left me hangin for 2 months. Then I asked her to hang to see if I could do the friends thing. Well I showed up and she looked real good and I didnt feel so swell about bein friends anymore.


Is it worth hanging with her, I think she could be sidling me..



Has anyone ever been in the same boat? How did it work out? Is it a lost cause? I honestly dont want to let this one go.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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im a firm believer in converting friends into girlfriends. I know it can be done cos ive done it. But it takes alot of headfvcking aswell... like i cant pinpoint exactly how i did it yet.

The 2 month break should do you good.. and remember she hung out with you and wore a bunch of nice ****. i usually consider that like half an IOI. Dont ever verbalize to her what you just said here though "lets do the friends thing". Ask her to hang out n thats it.. dont try to make excuses for yourself. Your not out to prove yourself to her. Its the other way round.

If i were u and i liked her, id use the 2 month break and start fresh with her. Be different, be C+F, kino act like u dont giv a fvck.. basically.. yea.. start over.. I mean she met you right? Think that SHE WANTS YOU TO BE THE MAN OF HER DREAMS.. but if you come accross as a b!tch shes gona find someone else to be that guy.

Dont verbalize ****. Dont say you like her.. then she cant give you any speach.. just build sexual tension, flirt, setup dates and actions actions.. guage her interest.. push pull.. i think the 2 mnths break gives you a right to have another shot.. she should be more open now.
 
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thanks!, thats some great advice@!:yes:
 
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Coming up next: Dogs as Horses. Followed by Toothpicks as Swords. After the break.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you want to be her friend? If not then give yourself a deadline to be ****ing this girl using anointed's advice. That way you won't get pulled into a situation where you become her little pet as you can't walk away because after all you're only friends and you don't want to admit that 4 months later the only reason you where friends was to have sex so you stay her little pet.

That's the danger!
 
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