"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls as Friends

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God all my posts suck nothing for the community I mean, I'm just looking for some kind of advice from past experiences.


I know the whole friends thing is a no no but heres the situation:

I dated this girl for like 3 weeks, totally led me on then cut me down real fast with a friends speach. Basically left me hangin for 2 months. Then I asked her to hang to see if I could do the friends thing. Well I showed up and she looked real good and I didnt feel so swell about bein friends anymore.


Is it worth hanging with her, I think she could be sidling me..



Has anyone ever been in the same boat? How did it work out? Is it a lost cause? I honestly dont want to let this one go.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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im a firm believer in converting friends into girlfriends. I know it can be done cos ive done it. But it takes alot of headfvcking aswell... like i cant pinpoint exactly how i did it yet.

The 2 month break should do you good.. and remember she hung out with you and wore a bunch of nice ****. i usually consider that like half an IOI. Dont ever verbalize to her what you just said here though "lets do the friends thing". Ask her to hang out n thats it.. dont try to make excuses for yourself. Your not out to prove yourself to her. Its the other way round.

If i were u and i liked her, id use the 2 month break and start fresh with her. Be different, be C+F, kino act like u dont giv a fvck.. basically.. yea.. start over.. I mean she met you right? Think that SHE WANTS YOU TO BE THE MAN OF HER DREAMS.. but if you come accross as a b!tch shes gona find someone else to be that guy.

Dont verbalize ****. Dont say you like her.. then she cant give you any speach.. just build sexual tension, flirt, setup dates and actions actions.. guage her interest.. push pull.. i think the 2 mnths break gives you a right to have another shot.. she should be more open now.
 
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thanks!, thats some great advice@!:yes:
 
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Coming up next: Dogs as Horses. Followed by Toothpicks as Swords. After the break.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you want to be her friend? If not then give yourself a deadline to be ****ing this girl using anointed's advice. That way you won't get pulled into a situation where you become her little pet as you can't walk away because after all you're only friends and you don't want to admit that 4 months later the only reason you where friends was to have sex so you stay her little pet.

That's the danger!
 
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