"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girls as friends. bad.

tony-montana

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i hate being friends with girls. i've had many in my time but they don't ever last long because i start to drift away from the friendship. one of my latest friends got really upset cause i never talk to her anymore and ignore her. i stopped hanging out with her cause like almost any girl she pulls off those silly things where one night she'll have a go at me for nothing then the next day apologize. happens more than once.

i just don't feel comfortable having girls as friends. i prefer to just be in a relationship and that's it. why fuk around and hang out with girls they just whinge alot and talk about dumb crap. sure they look good next to your arm when you're out but is it worth it?

any other guys the same?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tony-montana

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yeah i don't agree with the whole girls hanging out with guys when she's got a bf. that's not on.
 

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tony-montana said:
i hate being friends with girls. i've had many in my time but they don't ever last long because i start to drift away from the friendship. one of my latest friends got really upset cause i never talk to her anymore and ignore her. i stopped hanging out with her cause like almost any girl she pulls off those silly things where one night she'll have a go at me for nothing then the next day apologize. happens more than once.

i just don't feel comfortable having girls as friends. i prefer to just be in a relationship and that's it. why fuk around and hang out with girls they just whinge alot and talk about dumb crap. sure they look good next to your arm when you're out but is it worth it?

any other guys the same?
just hung out with a "CHICK FRIEND" last night, with 4 other guys and yeah, she did and said some pretty dumb shiet.. was kinda getting tired of her. And,she aint even all that. I'm starting to think that.. its just not meant to be.. unless the chick can really do and talk "GUY" stuff
 
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