"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girls as friends. bad.

tony-montana

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i hate being friends with girls. i've had many in my time but they don't ever last long because i start to drift away from the friendship. one of my latest friends got really upset cause i never talk to her anymore and ignore her. i stopped hanging out with her cause like almost any girl she pulls off those silly things where one night she'll have a go at me for nothing then the next day apologize. happens more than once.

i just don't feel comfortable having girls as friends. i prefer to just be in a relationship and that's it. why fuk around and hang out with girls they just whinge alot and talk about dumb crap. sure they look good next to your arm when you're out but is it worth it?

any other guys the same?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tony-montana

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yeah i don't agree with the whole girls hanging out with guys when she's got a bf. that's not on.
 

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tony-montana said:
i hate being friends with girls. i've had many in my time but they don't ever last long because i start to drift away from the friendship. one of my latest friends got really upset cause i never talk to her anymore and ignore her. i stopped hanging out with her cause like almost any girl she pulls off those silly things where one night she'll have a go at me for nothing then the next day apologize. happens more than once.

i just don't feel comfortable having girls as friends. i prefer to just be in a relationship and that's it. why fuk around and hang out with girls they just whinge alot and talk about dumb crap. sure they look good next to your arm when you're out but is it worth it?

any other guys the same?
just hung out with a "CHICK FRIEND" last night, with 4 other guys and yeah, she did and said some pretty dumb shiet.. was kinda getting tired of her. And,she aint even all that. I'm starting to think that.. its just not meant to be.. unless the chick can really do and talk "GUY" stuff
 
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