Girls are so FOS, I can't take it sometimes.

[SgtSplacker]

Excuse the rant...

Valentines morning we wake up together. I go into the closet where it's hidden and get her gift bag full of goodies with shiny balloons tied to it and place it on the blanket next to her. Her eyes light up and she just loves her gifts. I notice she didn't have anything for me... All good, I sincerely don't care and maybe this will buy me some lenience if I make a mistake in a future gift giving opportunity. I also didn't want to make her feel bad like she has done to me in the past, so whatever. An eye for an eye makes the world blind right? She gets up makes breakfast and we enjoy it together. She did leave the mess for me to clean up BTW. Whatever... all good.

But then she starts talking about how important it is to show your partner you appreciate them by going out of your way to make them feel special during the holidays bla bla bla. And i'm just sitting there looking her dead in the eye wondering how she can't even correlate what she's saying against what happened this morning. How can she be so FOS? seriously? Is she even hinting something to me? impossible. AGAIN i'm keeping my mouth shut why ruin a good thing by calling her out on something so obvious. She'll just flip the script and call me shallow or something for bringing it up and be butthurt for a week. We fight so much about nonsense like this and nothing ever changes so why start another one and ruin my day because of her.

Moral of the story. Women live in their own fantasy world. They make the rules and fabricate reality as it suits them. You have no hope of receiving any objectivity from a woman and this is why you have to maintain ultimate frame at all times. Game is about focusing on yourself and building a strong character. If she's not coming along for YOUR ride, then kick her to the curb. Women are children.

 

[wifehunter]

A good reminder...

Woman was made for Man.

If left to their own devices, they create their own reality. You, as a Man, must be her reality.

 

[salinechow]

Classic (possiable) BPD and attachment issue traits. So many trigger words in the way you speak of her. I would read up on personality disorders.

 

[Masculinity]

Another case of women being okay with a double standard, but only when it works in their favor.

 

[logicallefty]

Women are Borg. They live in their own reality, collectively behave the same, and will femsimilate any man into submission to their reality that they can.

 

[Lozboss]

tl;dnr

Learn to add this to the end of your posts. People may then read them.

OP- this girl is disrespecting you. Why haven't you kicked her to the curb? That is the real question.

 

[cola]

You need to get out of that bro. You deserve better. I know you are attatched but you deserve better.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Moral of the story. Women live in their own fantasy world. They make the rules and fabricate reality as it suits them.

That's why you should take anything a woman posts to a forum with a grain of salt and a spoonful of castor oil.

 

[El Payaso]

Because YOU let her get away with it. If a man did the same to you, you would call him out on it right away but as soon as you spot a wet hole between her legs, you turn soft and say "whatever you want, baby".

She's probably telling her friends and laughing about you right now.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Man, I don't know if it's my age or what but ALL women I see do stuff like this. Besides things like this she's a good girl, and eventually she did sneak out and get me something. Changing women is the same as changing problems IMHO. I have to admit I am on the last straw with this one. Well see what happens...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Man, I don't know if it's my age or what but ALL women I see do stuff like this. Besides things like this she's a good girl, and eventually she did sneak out and get me something. Changing women is the same as changing problems IMHO. I have to admit I am on the last straw with this one. Well see what happens...

Yes, changing women is changing problems, but the new woman might have problems that aren't a big deal to you, whereas the other one's problems completely distracted and degraded your life.

 

[kronreiff]

Well, you didn't find her particularly attractive, but she did impress you with her squirt gun. Bottom line is, she disrespected you and you let her sail with it. Next!

 

[Lozboss]

Man, I don't know if it's my age or what but ALL women I see do stuff like this. Besides things like this she's a good girl, and eventually she did sneak out and get me something. Changing women is the same as changing problems IMHO. I have to admit I am on the last straw with this one. Well see what happens...

This is such a BETA bluepill approach.

Please do not post any more about any problems you experience with this girl.

You refuse to take advice and grow a pair. You have sown the seeds of your own downfall.