"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls are people too

Arioch

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I saw a beautiful girl in a study lounge smell her own armpits today, and I smiled at her and thought, "Yep. Girls are people too." Some guys act like they're goddesses or something, but they're not. They're just like you and me, only softer and nicer-smelling.

Does anyone else have stories of seeing beautiful women doing un-womanly things such as this? It would make a good thread for those who have too much fear.
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Arioch: Tall. Long. Amused.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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So did you approach her, you had the perfect opening.
 

BackToTheMack

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I really do not want to know about women taking sh*ts, shaving and smelling them selves this is a stupid thread.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
So did you approach her, you had the perfect opening.
that's what i was wondering too.
 

DJDamage

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Originally posted by Arioch
I saw a beautiful girl in a study lounge smell her own armpits today, and I smiled at her and thought, "Yep. Girls are people too." Some guys act like they're goddesses or something, but they're not. They're just like you and me, only softer and nicer-smelling.

Does anyone else have stories of seeing beautiful women doing un-womanly things such as this? It would make a good thread for those who have too much fear.
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Arioch: Tall. Long. Amused.
Well I know this guy who was bouncing in a few clubs and he told me all the crazy stuff that he seen girls do. You would be surprise how many times he and his crew had to carry HB's out of clubs and into the first aid room. He told me one incident he can never forget was this HB he was carring out who was semi- unconscious due to alot of drinking and drugs that she kept on vomiting and she was covered in her own urine and feces. The girl was possesed like she was from the movie The Exocerist. Disgusting!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by BackToTheMack
I really do not want to know about women taking sh*ts, shaving and smelling them selves this is a stupid thread.
A comment like this is the mark of a man who doesn't appreciate the REALNESS of human existence.

~Sloopy
 
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