"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls are like puppets

NobodyCares1

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Just a short insight I had yesterday, basically I was dancing with my classmate, I know her for three years but we never really talked a lot. I'm not a good dancer but I had great eye contact with her and good kino and basically I could've just took her by the hand and make out with her without even a word being said. Now the thing is she has a boyfriend but she was as if she couldn't even control herself, just obeying me. She might have been a little drunk but still, and I thought if the girl are really juslt like puppets, you come, press the right buttons and they will do whatever you wish without even thinking. I've noticed this for a couple of times already and to be honest it seems kinda weird to me, like girls don't even think or care about consequenses when you press the right buttons.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alle_Gory

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No, not exactly. They won't do anything you say, they are influenced by certain things but not everything.
 

NobodyCares1

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Alle_Gory said:
No, not exactly. They won't do anything you say, they are influenced by certain things but not everything.
Well yes, that was a bit exagerrated but still my point is that it seemed to me that she would cheat on her BF with me without even reconsidering it at that moment, which brings me to the point that every girl will eventually cheat if a guy comes and presses the right buttons at the right time. This particular girl is the kind of a girl I'd never say would cheat. Of course I can't say that she would definitely cheat on him because I didn't go that far with her, I have no interest in girls with BF but it seemed to me that she would. Which brings me to the point that expecting girl to never cheat on you is madness.
 

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I have almost the same theory , women are passive (receiver ) , so men control what data women can receive , while men can produce any kind of data they woman ( a little geeky may be because of my job )

so send signal "I am dominant " woman response "I am submissive"
signal "you are sexy" women response "start feel sexy"
signal "I am aroused by your body" women response" she get aroused "

and so on
good seducers know when to send these signals and how to make it clear , the much sexual signal is clear the more the response is clear , shyness and social programming prevent us from sending clear signals , what is why I want to improve it
 
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