"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't even know why so many AFC's are hell bent on finding a girlfriend. The majority of girls are two-faced, lying sluts and I encountered one this week.

I meet this one girl, we will call hb8, at a friends party about two weeks ago. We hit it off pretty well and I was definitely getting a good vibe. I setup a date to go play mini-golf and that went great.

A few days later, I setup another date to watch a movie at my apartment. As we are watching the movie, I start doing some small kino then slowing step it up. Before I know it, I'm on top of her making out. It keeps escalating from there and I end up fvcking her.

The next day I get a call from my friend saying that she called her ex-bf, that I didnt know they just brokeup, crying saying she was over my house. So basically, the ***** fvcking used me to get back at her boyfriend and I'm so pissed.

I'm not even going to bother finding a LTR, they are all sluts. I figure getting a dog is a much better companion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I used to chase LTrs, now I'm happier just getting laid once in a while, I'm much happier now I can put my effort into other things.
 
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NickSCFC2000 said:
I used to chase LTrs, now I'm happier just getting laid once in a while, I'm much happier now I can put my effort into other things.
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Exactly!
Also, you gotta be more discerning and filterfilterfilter even if it means you're gonna turn down some good, inviting pu$$y.
 
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NickSCFC2000 said:
I used to chase LTrs, now I'm happier just getting laid once in a while, I'm much happier now I can put my effort into other things.
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Thats basically what I'm doing now, its just so annoying to deal with girls like this. Too much fvcking drama.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why did you get used?

You had sex right?
So, no, you weren't used.

That's a thing a girl says.
 
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Yeah, I mean she didn't seem to give any signals of wanthing a LTR, and you had sex early on without her having a problem with that...

it's always a clear sign that they aint after anything serious. And it's not like you managed to get any sort of feelings at all in the short space of time.
 
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You got sex. Her boyfriend gets the drama. Why are you here again?
 
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This is the funniest thread I ever read in a long time. I mean whats there to complain about dude? You got a freebie and you're on the site whining about how she used you. There are a lot of guys out there wishing they were in your shoes. Anyways keep up the good work :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NickSCFC2000 said:
Yeah, I mean she didn't seem to give any signals of wanthing a LTR, and you had sex early on without her having a problem with that...

it's always a clear sign that they aint after anything serious. And it's not like you managed to get any sort of feelings at all in the short space of time.
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well i mean i left out the part of how I was talking to her a few weeks before hand. And, we also hung out a few times. She just gave out the vibe that she wanted a ltr. Also, the fact she would call/text or im me all the time. I was more or less mad because I thought she was a really cool girl at first but obvious that is not the case. That and I put a lot of time and effort into her and I feel like I got no return. lol
 
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John_Galt said:
Don't get too upset at her, it's in their nature.
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It's in my nature to hold down any screaming girl i want and have sex with them as it was intended but yet somehow I don't.
 
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Scought said:
Why did you get used?

You had sex right?
So, no, you weren't used.

That's a thing a girl says.
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QFT. :rockon:
 
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