"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Paintballguy

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I don't even know why so many AFC's are hell bent on finding a girlfriend. The majority of girls are two-faced, lying sluts and I encountered one this week.

I meet this one girl, we will call hb8, at a friends party about two weeks ago. We hit it off pretty well and I was definitely getting a good vibe. I setup a date to go play mini-golf and that went great.

A few days later, I setup another date to watch a movie at my apartment. As we are watching the movie, I start doing some small kino then slowing step it up. Before I know it, I'm on top of her making out. It keeps escalating from there and I end up fvcking her.

The next day I get a call from my friend saying that she called her ex-bf, that I didnt know they just brokeup, crying saying she was over my house. So basically, the ***** fvcking used me to get back at her boyfriend and I'm so pissed.

I'm not even going to bother finding a LTR, they are all sluts. I figure getting a dog is a much better companion.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NickSCFC2000

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I used to chase LTrs, now I'm happier just getting laid once in a while, I'm much happier now I can put my effort into other things.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
I used to chase LTrs, now I'm happier just getting laid once in a while, I'm much happier now I can put my effort into other things.
Exactly!
Also, you gotta be more discerning and filterfilterfilter even if it means you're gonna turn down some good, inviting pu$$y.
 

Paintballguy

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NickSCFC2000 said:
I used to chase LTrs, now I'm happier just getting laid once in a while, I'm much happier now I can put my effort into other things.
Thats basically what I'm doing now, its just so annoying to deal with girls like this. Too much fvcking drama.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why did you get used?

You had sex right?
So, no, you weren't used.

That's a thing a girl says.
 

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Yeah, I mean she didn't seem to give any signals of wanthing a LTR, and you had sex early on without her having a problem with that...

it's always a clear sign that they aint after anything serious. And it's not like you managed to get any sort of feelings at all in the short space of time.
 

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You got sex. Her boyfriend gets the drama. Why are you here again?
 

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This is the funniest thread I ever read in a long time. I mean whats there to complain about dude? You got a freebie and you're on the site whining about how she used you. There are a lot of guys out there wishing they were in your shoes. Anyways keep up the good work :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Paintballguy

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NickSCFC2000 said:
Yeah, I mean she didn't seem to give any signals of wanthing a LTR, and you had sex early on without her having a problem with that...

it's always a clear sign that they aint after anything serious. And it's not like you managed to get any sort of feelings at all in the short space of time.
well i mean i left out the part of how I was talking to her a few weeks before hand. And, we also hung out a few times. She just gave out the vibe that she wanted a ltr. Also, the fact she would call/text or im me all the time. I was more or less mad because I thought she was a really cool girl at first but obvious that is not the case. That and I put a lot of time and effort into her and I feel like I got no return. lol
 

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John_Galt said:
Don't get too upset at her, it's in their nature.
It's in my nature to hold down any screaming girl i want and have sex with them as it was intended but yet somehow I don't.
 

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Scought said:
Why did you get used?

You had sex right?
So, no, you weren't used.

That's a thing a girl says.
QFT. :rockon:
 
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