"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls and the TYPES they like

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don_Joffe

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When a girl tells you "You not my type" (this is why I wont kiss you or date you). Do you think its because of the way you look? Yes and No.

Yes= Girls are attracted to looks.
No= Girls may be attracted to looks but your "game" is of equal if not more importance than your looks.

The next time a girl says "you are not my type" its most probably not what you wearing or what you look like its HIGHLY LIKELY your Game.
 

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I agree with Don_Jofee. I was in a similiar situation many moons ago. This girl gave me her number we organised a date. I acted like a complete wuss on the date...when I phoned her next day she told me I was not her type..

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Originally posted by nan3109
I can't figure out girls classifications of guys when they say 'your not my type'

i really cant even put my finger on what my type is exactly and maybe some of you could help me out.

Here's some pics of me
http://c.myspace.com/00065/07/85/65605870_l.jpg
http://c.myspace.com/00065/12/65/65605621_l.jpg
 

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Don't try and identify with a type, you are not a type you are nan3109 and there is exactly one person in the world that is like you, no one else.

You are the perfect man for the type of woman that is looking for a man like you.
 

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Originally posted by comote
Don't try and identify with a type, you are not a type you are nan3109 and there is exactly one person in the world that is like you, no one else.

You are the perfect man for the type of woman that is looking for a man like you.
Don't wait for that type of woman to come knockin' on your door. Why don't you work on your game and make sure you become the perfect man and more women will see you as the type of man they are looking for? In other words, become more marketable. Don't limit your choices because you are waiting just on the ones that like you for what you are now.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Whenever I've heard a girl say "you're not my type" it has been after they got to know me, in which case it's down to personality.

However, some women aren't physically attracted to pretty boys, white guys, muscley guys, thin guys, butch guys, blonde guys, short guys, young guys or whatever.

Don't take it as an insult, it's just a matter of taste.
 

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In my opinion Your Not My Type is just an excuse so that she won't have to deal with u. In other words shes not interested.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
Whenever I've heard a girl say "you're not my type" it has been after they got to know me, in which case it's down to personality.

However, some women aren't physically attracted to pretty boys, white guys, muscley guys, thin guys, butch guys, blonde guys, short guys, young guys or whatever.

Don't take it as an insult, it's just a matter of taste.
so im butch huh?
 
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