"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls and the TYPES they like

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When a girl tells you "You not my type" (this is why I wont kiss you or date you). Do you think its because of the way you look? Yes and No.

Yes= Girls are attracted to looks.
No= Girls may be attracted to looks but your "game" is of equal if not more importance than your looks.

The next time a girl says "you are not my type" its most probably not what you wearing or what you look like its HIGHLY LIKELY your Game.
 

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I agree with Don_Jofee. I was in a similiar situation many moons ago. This girl gave me her number we organised a date. I acted like a complete wuss on the date...when I phoned her next day she told me I was not her type..

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Originally posted by nan3109
I can't figure out girls classifications of guys when they say 'your not my type'

i really cant even put my finger on what my type is exactly and maybe some of you could help me out.

Here's some pics of me
http://c.myspace.com/00065/07/85/65605870_l.jpg
http://c.myspace.com/00065/12/65/65605621_l.jpg
 

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Don't try and identify with a type, you are not a type you are nan3109 and there is exactly one person in the world that is like you, no one else.

You are the perfect man for the type of woman that is looking for a man like you.
 

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Originally posted by comote
Don't try and identify with a type, you are not a type you are nan3109 and there is exactly one person in the world that is like you, no one else.

You are the perfect man for the type of woman that is looking for a man like you.
Don't wait for that type of woman to come knockin' on your door. Why don't you work on your game and make sure you become the perfect man and more women will see you as the type of man they are looking for? In other words, become more marketable. Don't limit your choices because you are waiting just on the ones that like you for what you are now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whenever I've heard a girl say "you're not my type" it has been after they got to know me, in which case it's down to personality.

However, some women aren't physically attracted to pretty boys, white guys, muscley guys, thin guys, butch guys, blonde guys, short guys, young guys or whatever.

Don't take it as an insult, it's just a matter of taste.
 

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In my opinion Your Not My Type is just an excuse so that she won't have to deal with u. In other words shes not interested.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
Whenever I've heard a girl say "you're not my type" it has been after they got to know me, in which case it's down to personality.

However, some women aren't physically attracted to pretty boys, white guys, muscley guys, thin guys, butch guys, blonde guys, short guys, young guys or whatever.

Don't take it as an insult, it's just a matter of taste.
so im butch huh?
 
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