Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls and Texting

scarface316

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When you're out with a girl on a date and she's texting, should you kick her to the curb? How would you do it without ruining your reputation?

What about "just hanging out"? And in high school, everyone texts or calls people on the weekends, does that mean she's interested in other things and using me? Or should I specifically mark a date to go out with her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Eklipse

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Girls usually start texting people when there bored. KEEP HER INTEREST
 

coolandcalm718

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Eklipse is right .... Hey and keep in mind the vast majority of females that young, really only look for the next thrill...So with that in mind understand that she may be planning something with another tom **** or harry!!!

Unless your game is tight start juggling some other chick because the text buttons are the only things she obviously will be wrapping her fingers around.

Do what ya do kid...Peace
 

DonJuan11

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scarface316 said:
When you're out with a girl on a date and she's texting, should you kick her to the curb? How would you do it without ruining your reputation?

"Kick a girl to the curb" for text messaging on a date? I hope you don't get an emergency call that your mom is in the hospital while you are on a date, your date may kick you out of the water.


What about "just hanging out"? And in high school, everyone texts or calls people on the weekends, does that mean she's interested in other things and using me?

If you are "hanging out", why do you care if she's text messaging someone? Do you love her?

Or should I specifically mark a date to go out with her?

Doesn't matter what you want, matters what she wants.
I wasn't popular in school, I wasn't popular in sports
All the girls I loved loved the guys on the court
I feel like I've been cheated of my youth
Cause back in the day braces weren't so cute
Girls used to laugh at my suit
Now I got models in bed knockin' boots.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why would you kick her to the curb if she's txting someone? If she gets a txt occasionally and she txts back, that's normal. Don't SNAP cause she's doing this.

Now, if she's txting every 5 seconds, or constantly txting when you're trying to talk to her than I'd say some sh1t cause now she's disrespecting you, I don't put up with that sh1t.

Have a good time with her and if you're interested in this girl than escalate and see where it goes. Don't sit there like a lump and wait for time to pass on by.
 

frisco

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If she is constantly TXT on a date and like im talking so much so its annoying then say Hey, I have to go... then get up and leave if she ask why say that you dont like girls who live out of there phone...
 

Scars

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Texting isnt that big of a deal. I text when I'm with girls, if they don't like it. **** them. It really doesn't bother me. Half the time it's one of their girly friends.. I know a ***** wouldn't be stupid enough to text another guy when she's around me.
 

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when that occurs i always imagine that her gf is asking "how's your date is going now" and she answers "unbelievably good!"
 

Zer0

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i'll ask her to trade me phones and then txt myself "you're so sexy". and thank her for the compliment.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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