"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls and Texting

scarface316

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When you're out with a girl on a date and she's texting, should you kick her to the curb? How would you do it without ruining your reputation?

What about "just hanging out"? And in high school, everyone texts or calls people on the weekends, does that mean she's interested in other things and using me? Or should I specifically mark a date to go out with her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eklipse

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Girls usually start texting people when there bored. KEEP HER INTEREST
 

coolandcalm718

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Eklipse is right .... Hey and keep in mind the vast majority of females that young, really only look for the next thrill...So with that in mind understand that she may be planning something with another tom **** or harry!!!

Unless your game is tight start juggling some other chick because the text buttons are the only things she obviously will be wrapping her fingers around.

Do what ya do kid...Peace
 

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scarface316 said:
When you're out with a girl on a date and she's texting, should you kick her to the curb? How would you do it without ruining your reputation?

"Kick a girl to the curb" for text messaging on a date? I hope you don't get an emergency call that your mom is in the hospital while you are on a date, your date may kick you out of the water.


What about "just hanging out"? And in high school, everyone texts or calls people on the weekends, does that mean she's interested in other things and using me?

If you are "hanging out", why do you care if she's text messaging someone? Do you love her?

Or should I specifically mark a date to go out with her?

Doesn't matter what you want, matters what she wants.
I wasn't popular in school, I wasn't popular in sports
All the girls I loved loved the guys on the court
I feel like I've been cheated of my youth
Cause back in the day braces weren't so cute
Girls used to laugh at my suit
Now I got models in bed knockin' boots.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why would you kick her to the curb if she's txting someone? If she gets a txt occasionally and she txts back, that's normal. Don't SNAP cause she's doing this.

Now, if she's txting every 5 seconds, or constantly txting when you're trying to talk to her than I'd say some sh1t cause now she's disrespecting you, I don't put up with that sh1t.

Have a good time with her and if you're interested in this girl than escalate and see where it goes. Don't sit there like a lump and wait for time to pass on by.
 

frisco

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If she is constantly TXT on a date and like im talking so much so its annoying then say Hey, I have to go... then get up and leave if she ask why say that you dont like girls who live out of there phone...
 

Scars

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Texting isnt that big of a deal. I text when I'm with girls, if they don't like it. **** them. It really doesn't bother me. Half the time it's one of their girly friends.. I know a ***** wouldn't be stupid enough to text another guy when she's around me.
 

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when that occurs i always imagine that her gf is asking "how's your date is going now" and she answers "unbelievably good!"
 

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i'll ask her to trade me phones and then txt myself "you're so sexy". and thank her for the compliment.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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