"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls and horses

SmoothTalker

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So.. does anybody have a rough idea of how popular equestrian sports are overall?

I always thought it was a fairly niche hobby for people that don't live in the country (I live in a smallish city, about 500k people in the area). But for some reason it seems 9/10 of the girls I have met recently are all fairly serious horse riders, and no, I am not trying to pick up at a barn.

Is this just a statistical anomaly and I'm going through a weird batch, or did I greatly underestimate how popular this hobby/sport is?

I don't think it has a big impact on the girls overall so it's not a big deal, though I would probably benefit a bit if I had some experience with horses, as it is I've only been one twice in my life.

Anyone have similar observations or thoughts/tips for macking horse chicks? (Aside from my horse **** which I'm pretty sure is a big plus, haha j/k.)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Isko

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Just ask them about it and watch them get girly and cutesy. Then watch yourself get bored because you don't care about horses and it's gross the way that they stick their bare hands into the horse's nose and ass and genitals to clean it.
 

Tiguere

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Crap....what a bummer ....thread title misleading.
 
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