"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls and attraction to height- do girls like guys who LOOK tall more than the actual

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Ok the title got cut off, but heres my question. It's pretty common knowledge that height does indeed play a role in attraction for females, but the question I have is, does the ratio of height in legs vs height in torso have anything to do with this? Take me for example I'm on the shorter side about 5'8 or 5'9, but I have a large amount of my height in my lower body(I'd say at least 65%, so I have long legs. I sit so low in desks its ridiculous. There used to be this other guy in my class who was around my height, but sat up higher than me, meaning he had a longer torso or equal torso/legs and he looked shorter than he was when walking down the hall. I'm not really sure exactly what I'm asking, but just looking for any thoughts opinions. Although I do think this only matters in the average range 5'7-5'10 or something.

So taking this combined with good posture I get the feeling that the appearance of height is more important than the actual height itself. What do you guys think.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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There are certain ways you can dress to even out the appearance of your height. Wear a longer shirt to make your legs appear shorter for instance.
 

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lol 5 8?

I am 5 6 :)


some girls wont date you based on hieght.


average afc pull 3 of 100 chicks.

6 foot tall dj pulls 80 of 100 chicks he talks too.(attainable women)

5 6 dj pulls 70 of 100 chicks he talks too


there you go.


im serious....ive been threw this height thing on here for a long time with these guys here....and guess what..its way overblown......attitude, confidence and power have nothing to do with height.

neither does

money
charm
your face
body
style
clothes
grooming


I dont need to go on!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
9 out of 10 statistics are made up
Haha
 

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yes walking with your head held high makes you look taller than walking with your head facing the ground and shoulders slouched
 

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Gun for the midgets if your short. Poosay is poosay!

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Check this out too: a man walking like a king is impressive, but a smaller man walking like a king is even more powerful.... I just made that one up, but the point is, being a short guy with huge confidence and attitude is something that should catch a woman's eye.... it takes a big man inside to do that. Also, take a look at Joe Pesci, at like 5'4" or somewhere around there, and Al Pacino, I believe in the neighborhood of 5'6", and you tell me they can't get any women....... of course they have obvious advantages but it's just an example. Height helps most of the time, esp. if you are AFC, but it doesn't matter that much. Of course SOME women will go only for tall guys and you will have a disadvantage trying to get those girls and they will choose not to date you just because of your height, but again, don't even worry about it.

One more thing: if you are short, why not go for shorter girls? I like shorter girls myself. I am 5'8", I prefer like 5'0" to 5'6", and don't really even look at taller girls, seriously. Can you blame a taller girl for liking a taller guy? I can't. It has something to do with dominance and I honestly don't want to be looking up to a girl, just like she might not want to look down to me. I can't stand those leggy blondes everyone is always raving about, I don't prefer tall girls... so I bet you a lot of girls are the same way with men. Well, I will rephrase that, a lot of girls actually prefer the shorter guys, I have seen it, I know, especially, you know who, the shorter girls. But don't change your tastes because of height, if you are a true mackdaddy it will play a very small role in her attraction to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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