"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls and attraction to height- do girls like guys who LOOK tall more than the actual

BlahUgh

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Ok the title got cut off, but heres my question. It's pretty common knowledge that height does indeed play a role in attraction for females, but the question I have is, does the ratio of height in legs vs height in torso have anything to do with this? Take me for example I'm on the shorter side about 5'8 or 5'9, but I have a large amount of my height in my lower body(I'd say at least 65%, so I have long legs. I sit so low in desks its ridiculous. There used to be this other guy in my class who was around my height, but sat up higher than me, meaning he had a longer torso or equal torso/legs and he looked shorter than he was when walking down the hall. I'm not really sure exactly what I'm asking, but just looking for any thoughts opinions. Although I do think this only matters in the average range 5'7-5'10 or something.

So taking this combined with good posture I get the feeling that the appearance of height is more important than the actual height itself. What do you guys think.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There are certain ways you can dress to even out the appearance of your height. Wear a longer shirt to make your legs appear shorter for instance.
 

frivolousz21

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lol 5 8?

I am 5 6 :)


some girls wont date you based on hieght.


average afc pull 3 of 100 chicks.

6 foot tall dj pulls 80 of 100 chicks he talks too.(attainable women)

5 6 dj pulls 70 of 100 chicks he talks too


there you go.


im serious....ive been threw this height thing on here for a long time with these guys here....and guess what..its way overblown......attitude, confidence and power have nothing to do with height.

neither does

money
charm
your face
body
style
clothes
grooming


I dont need to go on!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
9 out of 10 statistics are made up
Haha
 

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yes walking with your head held high makes you look taller than walking with your head facing the ground and shoulders slouched
 

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Gun for the midgets if your short. Poosay is poosay!

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Check this out too: a man walking like a king is impressive, but a smaller man walking like a king is even more powerful.... I just made that one up, but the point is, being a short guy with huge confidence and attitude is something that should catch a woman's eye.... it takes a big man inside to do that. Also, take a look at Joe Pesci, at like 5'4" or somewhere around there, and Al Pacino, I believe in the neighborhood of 5'6", and you tell me they can't get any women....... of course they have obvious advantages but it's just an example. Height helps most of the time, esp. if you are AFC, but it doesn't matter that much. Of course SOME women will go only for tall guys and you will have a disadvantage trying to get those girls and they will choose not to date you just because of your height, but again, don't even worry about it.

One more thing: if you are short, why not go for shorter girls? I like shorter girls myself. I am 5'8", I prefer like 5'0" to 5'6", and don't really even look at taller girls, seriously. Can you blame a taller girl for liking a taller guy? I can't. It has something to do with dominance and I honestly don't want to be looking up to a girl, just like she might not want to look down to me. I can't stand those leggy blondes everyone is always raving about, I don't prefer tall girls... so I bet you a lot of girls are the same way with men. Well, I will rephrase that, a lot of girls actually prefer the shorter guys, I have seen it, I know, especially, you know who, the shorter girls. But don't change your tastes because of height, if you are a true mackdaddy it will play a very small role in her attraction to you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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