"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girls and attraction to height- do girls like guys who LOOK tall more than the actual

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Ok the title got cut off, but heres my question. It's pretty common knowledge that height does indeed play a role in attraction for females, but the question I have is, does the ratio of height in legs vs height in torso have anything to do with this? Take me for example I'm on the shorter side about 5'8 or 5'9, but I have a large amount of my height in my lower body(I'd say at least 65%, so I have long legs. I sit so low in desks its ridiculous. There used to be this other guy in my class who was around my height, but sat up higher than me, meaning he had a longer torso or equal torso/legs and he looked shorter than he was when walking down the hall. I'm not really sure exactly what I'm asking, but just looking for any thoughts opinions. Although I do think this only matters in the average range 5'7-5'10 or something.

So taking this combined with good posture I get the feeling that the appearance of height is more important than the actual height itself. What do you guys think.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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There are certain ways you can dress to even out the appearance of your height. Wear a longer shirt to make your legs appear shorter for instance.
 

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lol 5 8?

I am 5 6 :)


some girls wont date you based on hieght.


average afc pull 3 of 100 chicks.

6 foot tall dj pulls 80 of 100 chicks he talks too.(attainable women)

5 6 dj pulls 70 of 100 chicks he talks too


there you go.


im serious....ive been threw this height thing on here for a long time with these guys here....and guess what..its way overblown......attitude, confidence and power have nothing to do with height.

neither does

money
charm
your face
body
style
clothes
grooming


I dont need to go on!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
9 out of 10 statistics are made up
Haha
 

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yes walking with your head held high makes you look taller than walking with your head facing the ground and shoulders slouched
 

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Gun for the midgets if your short. Poosay is poosay!

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Check this out too: a man walking like a king is impressive, but a smaller man walking like a king is even more powerful.... I just made that one up, but the point is, being a short guy with huge confidence and attitude is something that should catch a woman's eye.... it takes a big man inside to do that. Also, take a look at Joe Pesci, at like 5'4" or somewhere around there, and Al Pacino, I believe in the neighborhood of 5'6", and you tell me they can't get any women....... of course they have obvious advantages but it's just an example. Height helps most of the time, esp. if you are AFC, but it doesn't matter that much. Of course SOME women will go only for tall guys and you will have a disadvantage trying to get those girls and they will choose not to date you just because of your height, but again, don't even worry about it.

One more thing: if you are short, why not go for shorter girls? I like shorter girls myself. I am 5'8", I prefer like 5'0" to 5'6", and don't really even look at taller girls, seriously. Can you blame a taller girl for liking a taller guy? I can't. It has something to do with dominance and I honestly don't want to be looking up to a girl, just like she might not want to look down to me. I can't stand those leggy blondes everyone is always raving about, I don't prefer tall girls... so I bet you a lot of girls are the same way with men. Well, I will rephrase that, a lot of girls actually prefer the shorter guys, I have seen it, I know, especially, you know who, the shorter girls. But don't change your tastes because of height, if you are a true mackdaddy it will play a very small role in her attraction to you.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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