"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TO the guys who get the 8-9.5 girls, post your photos.

I'm curious to see what kind of guy lands the hotties. Here in Ohio, hot babes tend to go for average looking guys.

I get tired of everyone asking me why i never have a GF. I'm selective and only want to BNG 8-9.5, so i'm curious what type of guy gets girls of this caliber; so i can compare and contrast....lol

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you cant judge someone based on their physical appearance to be a player. i too have been a victim of it....many ppl think that of me and one time my bro's friend asked me if i was.

other many times ppl will ask me where my gf is, i tell them i dont have one, they ask why? i just say i dunno.
this other time in class, this dude asked me , i said nope dont have a gf, he said i was lying ot him.....i go wtf, how come u think im lying?? he just nodded his head.
when i receive a phone call from a friend, this girl asks if it was my gf...

yea i am getting quite sick of ppl assuming i have a gf, and of ppl who ask why i dont have one.
 
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well im a fairly ugly guy but my girlfreind is so hot that she gets hit on by every guy in a room when we go out somewhere and when we walk down a busy street guys constantly check her out and make comments and tell me how lucky i am, once they see me looking at them checking her out. it certainly boosts your ego when you are going out with someone and every guy in the disco tries to pick her up and she keeps going home with you. but im sure it boosts her ego even more.

and alot of guys are like how the hell do YOU get a chick like that. you are the ugliest guy ive ever seen.

it just goes to show it doesnt matter what you look like. as long as you arnt a **** head, and practice the things people talk about here you can do well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude i totally agree with you about looks. I'm a really handsome guy, but i really don't get girls. My one friend who is 6'5 ,skinny as a rail, gets so much action it's not even funny. He isn't that good looking, however he still lands chicks.

When i approach girls in bars/clubs, they usually have their guard up and i don't really get to far. I'm convinced i'm never going to find a girl in a bar or club, it's just not meant to be.
 
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yea i think many ppl start to assume that when they see a good looking guy they will think they are a player. in addition, if they dress metrosexually, they'll even think they are definite players.

think of this:
how often in the past have you in the bar/ club seen HB's 8+,
then start thinking in your mind of how easily they cycle through guys and how it's just 1 after the other, easpecially if they seem outgoing, im sure this thought occured at least once in your mind.

but most of this world judges the book by it's cover, so there's really nothing we can do about changing ppl's impression of you...the ones that dont even know you.
 
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Tristan, I'm about the handsomest they come :), I'm very selective. Everyone asks me why I don't have a steady g/f or not married - I tell them that I don't marry hors - they kind of look at me strange and then say, "yeah, there are lot of hors out there!!" I only go after 9's!!!
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
yea i think many ppl start to assume that when they see a good looking guy they will think they are a player. in addition, if they dress metrosexually, they'll even think they are definite players.

think of this:
how often in the past have you in the bar/ club seen HB's 8+,
then start thinking in your mind of how easily they cycle through guys and how it's just 1 after the other, easpecially if they seem outgoing, im sure this thought occured at least once in your mind.

but most of this world judges the book by it's cover, so there's really nothing we can do about changing ppl's impression of you...the ones that dont even know you.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This thread is about POSTING PICS OF YOURSELF IF YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE. THreadstarter and even myself is hardly interested in what the fvck some of you think about looks if they matter or not. They do, just not as much as you might think.
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
you cant judge someone based on their physical appearance to be a player. i too have been a victim of it....many ppl think that of me and one time my bro's friend asked me if i was.

other many times ppl will ask me where my gf is, i tell them i dont have one, they ask why? i just say i dunno.
this other time in class, this dude asked me , i said nope dont have a gf, he said i was lying ot him.....i go wtf, how come u think im lying?? he just nodded his head.
when i receive a phone call from a friend, this girl asks if it was my gf...

yea i am getting quite sick of ppl assuming i have a gf, and of ppl who ask why i dont have one.
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Actually you somewhat can... I get called a player and stuff like that all the time by unknown people and they are positivly right, I am admittadely a player, Ill even tell girls... And you can often tell by a guys appearance if hes a player... His looks + style + bodylanguage... I dont think nan looks like one though. His eyes are too kind.
 
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This has nothing to do with posting your picture if your attractive. I'm very attractive for a male, yet i don't reap any benefits for having good looks (ex. dating bad a$$ females). I guess i wanted to see what the don juans look like who get the 8-9.5 type girls. At least this isn't another does she like me or not thread.
 
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Originally posted by dillin
you look like a player
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thanks, i try....

lol, j/k

i actually have a girlfriend of over 1 year but whenever I go out and drink and if my friends have girls there I usually get offered stuff but I tell them I have a girlfriend and I usually get "that doesnt matter" reaction from them.

Then I'll just leave the room or something to avoid them. Even though I look like a player, I would never cheat
 
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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
And you can often tell by a guys appearance if hes a player... His looks + style + bodylanguage... I dont think nan looks like one though. His eyes are too kind.
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Well, the art of deception and the craft of manipulation is wonderful now isn't it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kineti Charm, I know Ive railed you before but you dont change ;)

you bring up how important looks are continually, and how blessed YOU are!

You also ask everyone to "post pics if they are attractive." (even tho threadstarter didnt agree this was the point - lol)

and YOU still havent blessed us with your radiant beauty:rolleyes:

Im not gonna leave you alone on this you know it :D

post a pic, cruise:D
 
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