"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of a flood of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
Chances are the hormonal issues will resolve over time as long as they are hormonal. There could be other metabolic processes working alongside it as well as undiagnosed mental components. Things like seratonin syndrome and others.

You need to give this another month or so, to see what reality is, she may be under the influence still.
 

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
Tell her you need some space too!
 

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The other thing to consider is that copper 7’s can and do damage to the uterine lining, as their mode of action is to not allow a fertilized egg from implanting on the uterine wall.

All intrauterine devices reduce a woman’s ability to bear children to some extent, something to consider if you’re thinking of having children with her in the future.

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