"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of a flood of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
Chances are the hormonal issues will resolve over time as long as they are hormonal. There could be other metabolic processes working alongside it as well as undiagnosed mental components. Things like seratonin syndrome and others.

You need to give this another month or so, to see what reality is, she may be under the influence still.
 

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
Tell her you need some space too!
 

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The other thing to consider is that copper 7’s can and do damage to the uterine lining, as their mode of action is to not allow a fertilized egg from implanting on the uterine wall.

All intrauterine devices reduce a woman’s ability to bear children to some extent, something to consider if you’re thinking of having children with her in the future.

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