"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of a flood of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
Chances are the hormonal issues will resolve over time as long as they are hormonal. There could be other metabolic processes working alongside it as well as undiagnosed mental components. Things like seratonin syndrome and others.

You need to give this another month or so, to see what reality is, she may be under the influence still.
 

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So yeah. Had a hormonal implant. Under doctors advise she got it removed, because if the extreme effect on her body and moods.

Had it replaced with a copper coil (non hormonal). Been around a month now.


Jesus Christ. Her PMDD is seriously gotten out of control. Everyone close to her is "bad", craziest reasons why everyone is a terrible person.

We nearly broke up the other day. Now she needs space to work on herself, she's spending a few days reorganising her bedroom lol.

Please tell me having the implant removed and replaced with a copper coil, has just temporary opened a flood gate of hormones and will level out soon and balance and sanity will follow.
Tell her you need some space too!
 

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The other thing to consider is that copper 7’s can and do damage to the uterine lining, as their mode of action is to not allow a fertilized egg from implanting on the uterine wall.

All intrauterine devices reduce a woman’s ability to bear children to some extent, something to consider if you’re thinking of having children with her in the future.

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