My girlfriend and I are going to different places for spring break, she will be at a pretty crowded and popular beach and though I do trust her, I'm worried she'll be tempted to cheat on me (she is hot and often has guys hitting on her), Also she may be drunk for a good bit down there, and she'd be much more likely to cheat when she's drunk. Is there any way I can make sure she's faithful, or at least find out if she wasn't? Thanks
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girlfriends On Spring Break
- Thread starter CuLprit
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Can you ever make sure anyone is truthful? Or find out if they were or not?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It depends what your defintion of cheating on you is. If her flirting with people is something you consider is cheating then of course she will be. Id say almost every girl in every relationship flirts with other guys while they are in a relationship and you better just accept it. On another note, you said she was going to the beach so of course she is going there to check out/flirt with guys thats the whole point. You dont need to be at a crowded beach to go swimming or get a tan...
this is something i dont really understand. why do u care if she messes around with some other guys on her vacation?? its a vacation so shes not gonna leave you for any of them. they dont know you so theyre not disrespecting you. odds are theyre just gonna teach ur girl a couple tricks shell bring back to you. i dont see why so many guys are afraid of this 
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
I can't believe some girls would be so inconsiderate that they would go somewhere without their boyfriend, especially on spring break!
I say break up with her right now, and tell her explicitly your reason for doing so. For example:
"I'm so insecure that I am deathly afraid you will cheat on me with all sorts of guys that are infinitely more attractive than me while you'reon vaction, so I have decided to preempt your sluttish actions by breaking up with you immediately, whether you actually cheat on me or not."
After saying something similar to this, she will immediately drop down to her knees and beg forgiveness for her two-timing desires, inviting you to sweep her into the bedroom and make passionate love all night long.
In all seriousness, she may cheat and she may not cheat. Since you have no way to really tell, simply assume that because you are so attractive and suave she won't, then you won't have anything to worry about. After all, she's just a girl.
I say break up with her right now, and tell her explicitly your reason for doing so. For example:
"I'm so insecure that I am deathly afraid you will cheat on me with all sorts of guys that are infinitely more attractive than me while you'reon vaction, so I have decided to preempt your sluttish actions by breaking up with you immediately, whether you actually cheat on me or not."
After saying something similar to this, she will immediately drop down to her knees and beg forgiveness for her two-timing desires, inviting you to sweep her into the bedroom and make passionate love all night long.
In all seriousness, she may cheat and she may not cheat. Since you have no way to really tell, simply assume that because you are so attractive and suave she won't, then you won't have anything to worry about. After all, she's just a girl.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
why arent you two going somewhere together? if it was serious,i would want to be with my gf for spring break. whats the point of going to spring break if youre not going to get laid. youre going to watch all your friends get laid with gorgeous random beach girls and youre gunna be alone...hate to sound pesimistic,but that sucks
I dont even have to know the girl.
If given the opportunity(which of course she will have), she will cheat on you and im not being sarcastic. Actions arent realy what you should base your decision on although everybody says that. What you should base your decision on is behavior.
Behavior states that if a girl had a high interest level in you she would want to be with you on spring break.
But no, she wants to get away from you and so she is.
not worth being with my friend.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.