My girlfriend and I are going to different places for spring break, she will be at a pretty crowded and popular beach and though I do trust her, I'm worried she'll be tempted to cheat on me (she is hot and often has guys hitting on her), Also she may be drunk for a good bit down there, and she'd be much more likely to cheat when she's drunk. Is there any way I can make sure she's faithful, or at least find out if she wasn't? Thanks
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Girlfriends On Spring Break
- Thread starter CuLprit
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
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oakraiderz2
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Can you ever make sure anyone is truthful? Or find out if they were or not?
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It depends what your defintion of cheating on you is. If her flirting with people is something you consider is cheating then of course she will be. Id say almost every girl in every relationship flirts with other guys while they are in a relationship and you better just accept it. On another note, you said she was going to the beach so of course she is going there to check out/flirt with guys thats the whole point. You dont need to be at a crowded beach to go swimming or get a tan...
this is something i dont really understand. why do u care if she messes around with some other guys on her vacation?? its a vacation so shes not gonna leave you for any of them. they dont know you so theyre not disrespecting you. odds are theyre just gonna teach ur girl a couple tricks shell bring back to you. i dont see why so many guys are afraid of this 
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
I can't believe some girls would be so inconsiderate that they would go somewhere without their boyfriend, especially on spring break!
I say break up with her right now, and tell her explicitly your reason for doing so. For example:
"I'm so insecure that I am deathly afraid you will cheat on me with all sorts of guys that are infinitely more attractive than me while you'reon vaction, so I have decided to preempt your sluttish actions by breaking up with you immediately, whether you actually cheat on me or not."
After saying something similar to this, she will immediately drop down to her knees and beg forgiveness for her two-timing desires, inviting you to sweep her into the bedroom and make passionate love all night long.
In all seriousness, she may cheat and she may not cheat. Since you have no way to really tell, simply assume that because you are so attractive and suave she won't, then you won't have anything to worry about. After all, she's just a girl.
I say break up with her right now, and tell her explicitly your reason for doing so. For example:
"I'm so insecure that I am deathly afraid you will cheat on me with all sorts of guys that are infinitely more attractive than me while you'reon vaction, so I have decided to preempt your sluttish actions by breaking up with you immediately, whether you actually cheat on me or not."
After saying something similar to this, she will immediately drop down to her knees and beg forgiveness for her two-timing desires, inviting you to sweep her into the bedroom and make passionate love all night long.
In all seriousness, she may cheat and she may not cheat. Since you have no way to really tell, simply assume that because you are so attractive and suave she won't, then you won't have anything to worry about. After all, she's just a girl.
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why arent you two going somewhere together? if it was serious,i would want to be with my gf for spring break. whats the point of going to spring break if youre not going to get laid. youre going to watch all your friends get laid with gorgeous random beach girls and youre gunna be alone...hate to sound pesimistic,but that sucks
I dont even have to know the girl.
If given the opportunity(which of course she will have), she will cheat on you and im not being sarcastic. Actions arent realy what you should base your decision on although everybody says that. What you should base your decision on is behavior.
Behavior states that if a girl had a high interest level in you she would want to be with you on spring break.
But no, she wants to get away from you and so she is.
not worth being with my friend.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.