girlfriend's mother ain't too bright...

[foomee]

my girlfriend seems to believe everything my mom says and always follows her advice. it's annoying as hell because her mom ain't that bright. she's basically a fob that married her husband after 3 months. what should i do about it? my gf wanted to break up with me a few weeks ago, and i think it was because of something her mom said. i'm actually at her house and they're upstairs talking, they've been talking for like an hour and it's really bothering me... any advice?

 

[Last Man Standing]

Let's seeeeeeee --- who should she listen to.... hmmmmmmmmm, a 19 year old kid or her mother who gave her birth and raised her to strength!! Tough choice! :

 

[cyp6]

i think its good if mom disaproves of you. she will like you even more. its kind of like a natural hard to get.

 

[Thomas94305]

The mom is the alpha you need to deal with. Be appropriately friendly to her, but don't kiss up, or it will look like you are angling. Make some effort to talk with her Mom, build comfort, trust. That's the best you can do. Just relax after that. It goes south, chalk this up to experience.