Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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alright,

recently in the last three days, my girlfriend has been having jerky movements like bucking whenever she lays down for awhile.

At first, I heard that if your muscles are stressed out for a bit that you could spasm. It happens to some people but after three days of this I'm getting worried.

Does anyone know anything that might cause this? Bad diet perhaps?

comic_relief
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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comic_relief said:
alright,

recently in the last three days, my girlfriend has been having jerky movements like bucking whenever she lays down for awhile.

At first, I heard that if your muscles are stressed out for a bit that you could spasm. It happens to some people but after three days of this I'm getting worried.

Does anyone know anything that might cause this? Bad diet perhaps?

comic_relief
Ask her about it.
 

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Don't worry about it, I've had those sort of spasms for as long as I can remember and I haven't had any ill effects - well apart from getting a slap from the missus when I jolt her out of her sleep. Get her to try a magnesium supplement if you're getting annoyed with it, it helps relax the muscles.
 

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she might be lacking electrolytes. but she probably needs to be more active. if she sits alot it's understandable. our muslces are made to do work and if you don't work them enough, energy is built up inside, and it has to be released somehow. at least that's what I think. Im no doctor
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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often times, if i'm thinking about a physical activity when i'm falling asleep, i'll dream it briefly and my muscles will inadvertantly move in that fashion.

i remember a long time ago, i fell asleep on the couch, had a dream about cutting hedges with shears, and made a scissor movement with my hands, waking myself in the process.

just recently i had a dream right after falling asleep that i kicked a guy in the face. i kicked during my sleep, hitting the wall and stubbing my toes. i woke up after that one, too. :D

when i was realllllllly stressed out in my younger days, i had muscle spasms in my sleep. they were more disorganized and didn't actually move any appendages, though.

if she's bucking her hips during her sleep, maybe she's dreaming about doing you, so take it as a good thing. lol
 
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