Girlfriend's going to Amsterdam... Should I panic?

[Harvey_Poon]

Some of the comments on this thread crack me up.

You should never worry or be scared about what a woman may or might not do. Especially since it hasn't happened yet. By doing this you will become a very insecure man.

Hell, she could be banging the guy down the street right now or some other guy that you don't even know about. Are you going to worry about that too?

If she wants to bang other men, she will. She won't care how you feel about it.

But remember, not every woman is a hoe and won't be spreading her legs for every Tom, D!ck, and Harry.

You should of waited until after the trip to become exclusive then you wouldn't be so worried or have to deal with any of this.

As for the guy who said to check her behavior when she comes back. Woman are good at hiding their cheating until they get caught. She is far away on a trip so you wouldn't know.

5 weeks isn't a long relationship so it depends on how much she likes you or what type of girl she is.

My advice is to use the vacation time to meet other women and not worry about what other women may do.

Dr. Harvey Poon

 

[Bokanovsky]

Panic is never a good strategy. Start re-framing your relationship (FWB) and exploring other options.

 

[SgtSplacker]

This friend she is going with, is it female? If it's a dude FWB her for sure, take a step back. Otherwise who cares, just make sure to bang her as soon as she comes back to see what condition the coochie is in. Any reddening or soreness and you better back out of that relationship, if she comes back horny and dying to screw, it's a good sign... very good! Check her for marks (bites, bruises) and such, anything on the butt and it's a no go on that relationship. Any weird yeast infection and it's a good notification that somethings been going on down there. She should wan't to bang you before she goes, since she is going to go a couple days without secks. Anything else is suspect.

Be there while she's packing to get a feeling for what she is preparing for.

Look at the bras she's taking, if she's missing any it's a good sign she went topless at some point of the night. Is there a festival going on in Amsterdam?

What is she going there for? Has she told you anything about the plans for the trip? People plan these things you know. If she says she doesn't have a plan what that really means is that she doesn't have a plan she wants to tell you. Because to pay all that bread for Amsterdam tickets and not have any plans is just stupid.

Check the condition of her trim, does she groom her pubes? Did she groom them for the trip? Did she groom them while she was there? It's a slight indicator of possible sexual activity or intent to have. If she completely shaves her pubes it makes it more uncomfortable to walk... that's not a vacationing trim it's a fu-ing trim right there.

Screw the idea of not calling her, what are you some scared little turtle popping it's head into a shell? Take control of the situation! I'd call her for sure, not too often but like twice a day once in the morning and once at around 9PM (her time) so you have an idea of what she is doing. Hey if you are about to commit to this girl then you are officially in her life. Don't act like you are not to make being a slut easier on her, Fu that.

Look on her FBook, girls love posting pictures of the most annoying crap. So if she actually has some nice vacation pics she will post them. If she's not posting her pics that's a huge red flag. Look on her friends FBook, maybe her/his posts are public and you can gain a little intelligence there.

I don't think there's anything wrong with you looking out for your best interests and your health. The last thing you need is to catch an STD from some tramp you barely even know and just started dating. I'll tell you something right now lets just say to catch something from this girl, you will feel like a major arse not looking into these things hard. Were protecting your health here. No holds barred, no privacy F-that! If she want's to take a dump in private, fine. But not this.

Amsterdam in April, what's going on?
http://goamsterdam.about.com/od/amsterdammonthlyguides/a/april_guide.htm

 

[Greasy Pig]

I'm thinking the fact she pushed for exclusivity knowing full well that she would be heading to Amsterdam shortly is a good sign.
I can't imagine a girl wanting to get railed by every clog wearing dyck would want to rush into an exclusive relationship.
Them again, maybe she just wants to make sure you won't be plowing random bar skanks while she's gone.

 

[QuadDeuces]

I grew up there

You don't have to panic, shes probably only going to smoke pot and eat a few shrooms.