Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Say you started seeing a girl and is introduced to her friends. How do you deal with it if her best friends turned out to be these dreadful women who think men are sh1t and who are the sort of people you find repulsive?

Do you go the honest route - tell your girl what you think or, just go with it?

On a deeper level - Do you believe that you can judge someone by the company he keeps and so next her. Or is that too harsh on the girl you are seeing?

Thoughts please.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tough question. Ask jophil28. He's in the Mature Man forum. He's got experience with ball busting biotches.
 
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BritBoy said:
Say you started seeing a girl and is introduced to her friends. How do you deal with it if her best friends turned out to be these dreadful women who think men are sh1t and who are the sort of people you find repulsive?

Do you go the honest route - tell your girl what you think or, just go with it?

On a deeper level - Do you believe that you can judge someone by the company he keeps and so next her. Or is that too harsh on the girl you are seeing?

Thoughts please.
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Yeah you can judge someone by the company they keep. So its a big red flag.
 
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My ex-girlfriend had some very needy friends who constantly tried to get in between us. She admittedly would get sick of her friends, but in the end it just matters what is more important to her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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compliment the friend.. find out what she likes.. surely you can find a way to get on her good side. even if you're just joking with the friend
 
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