"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Say you started seeing a girl and is introduced to her friends. How do you deal with it if her best friends turned out to be these dreadful women who think men are sh1t and who are the sort of people you find repulsive?

Do you go the honest route - tell your girl what you think or, just go with it?

On a deeper level - Do you believe that you can judge someone by the company he keeps and so next her. Or is that too harsh on the girl you are seeing?

Thoughts please.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tough question. Ask jophil28. He's in the Mature Man forum. He's got experience with ball busting biotches.
 
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BritBoy said:
Say you started seeing a girl and is introduced to her friends. How do you deal with it if her best friends turned out to be these dreadful women who think men are sh1t and who are the sort of people you find repulsive?

Do you go the honest route - tell your girl what you think or, just go with it?

On a deeper level - Do you believe that you can judge someone by the company he keeps and so next her. Or is that too harsh on the girl you are seeing?

Thoughts please.
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Yeah you can judge someone by the company they keep. So its a big red flag.
 
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My ex-girlfriend had some very needy friends who constantly tried to get in between us. She admittedly would get sick of her friends, but in the end it just matters what is more important to her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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compliment the friend.. find out what she likes.. surely you can find a way to get on her good side. even if you're just joking with the friend
 
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