"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BritBoy

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Say you started seeing a girl and is introduced to her friends. How do you deal with it if her best friends turned out to be these dreadful women who think men are sh1t and who are the sort of people you find repulsive?

Do you go the honest route - tell your girl what you think or, just go with it?

On a deeper level - Do you believe that you can judge someone by the company he keeps and so next her. Or is that too harsh on the girl you are seeing?

Thoughts please.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alle_Gory

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Tough question. Ask jophil28. He's in the Mature Man forum. He's got experience with ball busting biotches.
 

slaog

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BritBoy said:
Say you started seeing a girl and is introduced to her friends. How do you deal with it if her best friends turned out to be these dreadful women who think men are sh1t and who are the sort of people you find repulsive?

Do you go the honest route - tell your girl what you think or, just go with it?

On a deeper level - Do you believe that you can judge someone by the company he keeps and so next her. Or is that too harsh on the girl you are seeing?

Thoughts please.

Yeah you can judge someone by the company they keep. So its a big red flag.
 

OFWHAP

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My ex-girlfriend had some very needy friends who constantly tried to get in between us. She admittedly would get sick of her friends, but in the end it just matters what is more important to her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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iliketennis

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compliment the friend.. find out what she likes.. surely you can find a way to get on her good side. even if you're just joking with the friend
 
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