"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girlfriends classmate on her facebook

itishe

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Heyo,

I've had past girlfriends get a little too close with guys at schools (we are currently 1 hour apart), leading me to believe they cheated on me or me dumping them. It usually starts with the guy and girl opening conversation on Facebook or myspace, so when I see this random guy pop up on my girlfriends Facebook I tend to view it with scrutiny.

I don't mind if my gf talks to other guys, I just don't wanna be played and I wish to know when things are up to no good. The message talked about a class they have together and how he'll see her tomorrow in it. I figure for them to be each others friend they must of been talking in class and met up online. For all I know they might party together on weekend when we don't visit.

I'm not gonna get tight or controlling around the girl, but when do I know they are up to no good?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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facadegeniality

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is she an aquarius? aquarius are a friendly lot.

i know most guys here have the view that horoscopes are for girls. but i think there's some truth in it. like the base characters are there.
 

chinwaggler

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If you accuse her without any solid proof you're going to look like a tit. Why don't you just date girls near you.
 

itishe

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chinwaggler said:
If you accuse her without any solid proof you're going to look like a tit. Why don't you just date girls near you.

I'm not accusing her of anything man, what I'm saying is almost like finding a lump on your balls. It may or may not be an issue but it's smart to keep an eye on it and seek advice.

I'm not accusing her of cheating or intent to cheat, I just wish to keep an eye out because I've had relationships do this. As in a guy randomly shows up on one of the two sites and they go from there.
 
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