"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girlfriends classmate on her facebook

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itishe

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Heyo,

I've had past girlfriends get a little too close with guys at schools (we are currently 1 hour apart), leading me to believe they cheated on me or me dumping them. It usually starts with the guy and girl opening conversation on Facebook or myspace, so when I see this random guy pop up on my girlfriends Facebook I tend to view it with scrutiny.

I don't mind if my gf talks to other guys, I just don't wanna be played and I wish to know when things are up to no good. The message talked about a class they have together and how he'll see her tomorrow in it. I figure for them to be each others friend they must of been talking in class and met up online. For all I know they might party together on weekend when we don't visit.

I'm not gonna get tight or controlling around the girl, but when do I know they are up to no good?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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is she an aquarius? aquarius are a friendly lot.

i know most guys here have the view that horoscopes are for girls. but i think there's some truth in it. like the base characters are there.
 
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If you accuse her without any solid proof you're going to look like a tit. Why don't you just date girls near you.
 
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chinwaggler said:
If you accuse her without any solid proof you're going to look like a tit. Why don't you just date girls near you.
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I'm not accusing her of anything man, what I'm saying is almost like finding a lump on your balls. It may or may not be an issue but it's smart to keep an eye on it and seek advice.

I'm not accusing her of cheating or intent to cheat, I just wish to keep an eye out because I've had relationships do this. As in a guy randomly shows up on one of the two sites and they go from there.
 
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