Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Be original, sit down, think, write down what she likes and dislikes, put some thought into it. I would recommend staying away from the flowers, dinner thing as you had said. I would also recommend thinking of this yourself, because you can say to yourself afterwards "I GOT her this great gift, I THOUGHT of this" not, "Wow, thanks to that one dude from sosuave.net".foxintehsnow said:
Ah, thats gonna be hard ive been trying to do that for the past few weeks and nothing really came to mind..aussiegoat55 said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I like the horseback riding idea but i don't know if theres anything like that around here and i defently don't know how to ride a dam horseZaraza said:
hum is there anyother kinda activityys that would be a good idea i can't really think of anything other then going to one of the big gocarting places in the GTA?Shes one I a numberous amounts of girls im with right now and ive only known her for like a month now...Rata Blanca said: