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Girlfriend wants to stop having sex? Religion?

earl4321

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Hey, guys. I'm a long time lurker on these boards and have used the tips here to have a good number of relationships. I've decided to try the LTR. We have been going out for about a year now, and everything has been great...or so I thought.

Recently, we had a conversation about religion, and she confessed that she felt really guilty and "convicted by God" after we have sex. She cried and everything which she has NEVER done in front of me. I have NO idea how to deal with this situation. After she confessed, we didn't have sex that night and haven't had sex for a week.

How should I proceed? I really like her, but how do I know this is just her way of not having sex with me and maybe ****ing someone else? It seems her interest level has actually INCREASED since this confession.

Give me some advice guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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horaholic

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Unless you're religious beliefs tell you the same thing, you might want to move on. I wouldnt put up with that unless I believed the same thing.

Have her read this website:http://www.sexinchrist.com/:up: You're welcome!
 

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Unless you subscribe to the SAME religious philosophy, this relationship is doomed and you know it!

Was she a virgin when you met her?

If not, then she didn't have a problem sleeping with other guys without God smacking her in the head. Why is it different now?

In a few weeks you'll be back asking for pointers on how to excite her back into having sex...then on if you should get a fcuk buddy on the side...then how to break up with her.

Save your self the grief! Tell her if she doesn't want an adult relationship, then you don't see a future for the two of you.

Wave bye-bye:wave:
 

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When you say you haven't had sex in a week, what does that even mean? Have you tried to initiate sex and been refused? Or has your own hangups over what she said completely stopped you from trying to have sex with her?
 

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I would say that it's my own hangups over what she has said that has stopped me. We've been in situations where we could easily have sex. Last night, we were in the bed watching television, and I was feeling all over her body. She didn't stop me, but sex didn't come up either.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First thing you need to learn is not listen to what women say. She might forget all about the no sex thing. I had a chick pull that with me when I was 18. I dumped her, yet we had Ex sex a bunch of times afterwards.

You are the man, and you should be initiating it, to see if she even resists.
 
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