My girlfriend is visiting a guy she has known for a long time. She is going over to his house after visiting her dad in the hospital because his grandfather in in the same hospital. She called me last night and told me this. She said she felt guilty that she was going over there and not spending time with me. She got sidetracked at that moment by her parents and I took that oppertunity to get off the phone without acknowledging what she said. After that she text messaged me asking me if I wanted to hang out on Monday (we don't have school). I replied telling her I'd have to make sure I wasn't doing anything etc. She text messaged me back trying to keep the conversation going but I chose to go to sleep instead of replying.
From what I can tell this guy been attracted to her for the longest time but she doesn't really know it. She might feel some of the same attraction. They almost got together once and I think she might still regret it not happening. I think he might be in her friends zone. Did I make the right decision here or should I have put my foot down? On Monday I'm going to probably tell her that I want to meet this kid and maybe drill her about her intentions a little bit.
From what I can tell this guy been attracted to her for the longest time but she doesn't really know it. She might feel some of the same attraction. They almost got together once and I think she might still regret it not happening. I think he might be in her friends zone. Did I make the right decision here or should I have put my foot down? On Monday I'm going to probably tell her that I want to meet this kid and maybe drill her about her intentions a little bit.