PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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I'm not stepping my game up for any woman, why? because I don't give a ****. I am not a womans personal toy or clown, if she wants to move on she can
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girlfriend treats me like a "friend" around MY friends
- Thread starter jay07
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Meisterman
Senior Don Juan
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It's possible that she is giving off the vibe that she's "still on the market" to your friends. However it's also possible you're just insecure. You see your guy friends who are single and good looking, and then your gf talks or jokes with them. And you're ego is possessive about her and wants to claim her as 'yours.' You just gotta let go and ease up.
But much easier said than done. I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. And without knowing the situation fully, it's impossible for us to say whether she is hitting on them or just being friendly. But I think the best think you can do, which was already mentioned in this thread, is separate bro time from girl time. There are times you chill with your bros, and there are times you chill with your gf. But try to separate them as much as possible.
As long as you are inviting your GF to tag along while hanging with your bros, and vice versa, you are enabling anything that may happen between them. Stop being an enabler. Keep them separate and if she still hooks up with them then you know she's a ho and you saved yourself wasted time from a dumb girl and a fake bro.
But much easier said than done. I don't blame you for feeling the way you do. And without knowing the situation fully, it's impossible for us to say whether she is hitting on them or just being friendly. But I think the best think you can do, which was already mentioned in this thread, is separate bro time from girl time. There are times you chill with your bros, and there are times you chill with your gf. But try to separate them as much as possible.
As long as you are inviting your GF to tag along while hanging with your bros, and vice versa, you are enabling anything that may happen between them. Stop being an enabler. Keep them separate and if she still hooks up with them then you know she's a ho and you saved yourself wasted time from a dumb girl and a fake bro.
Serenity
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You're afraid of your girlfriend and you're on a slippery slope with that jealousy going on. You're fvcking up, you know it and you know what to do.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
SO, let me get this straight. Your "friend" makes a joke about you, then she chimes in and makes fun of you too, so you offer to leave them together (...to ƒuck)?jay07 said:
I should ask "what's wrong with you?", too.
I treat my girlfriend like a "friend" when we're out and about, too. Your girl's game is tighter than yours, apparently. Got your hamster spinnin'!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.