"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude04

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she is in another country for 2 weeks. first week we had great contact. we text, email, talk on the phone, and gtalk.

now, she don't contact at all. she reads my email but don't reply back.

should i call her or just wait til she calls me?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rushing dude 123

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No point in chasing her bro to find out whats the problem, if you have doubt which is what i am assuming you do because you are talking to us. Then just leave her alone and see what she does and that will tell you a lot more about her than anything she could say to you or any sort of technique you could utilise.

When you have a girlfriend the whole point is to not try and game them, they are already yours. So like i said don't do anything, just see if she meets the strandards of girlfriend material by actually contacting you once in a while.
 

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Don't you have a life of your own? Why must you be talking to this girl everyday like some kind of wussy?

If you were to go on another country for 2 weeks would you like somebody buggin you everyday while you're trying to soak in the sights and sounds of this new place you're at?

It doesn't make you look very good to be showing that you're desperate and missing her while she is probably out there having fun.

I'd say stop talking to her till she comes back and stop showing her that she's the one with a life and not you.
 

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ok respond to this
how many days ago did you talk to her for the last time? when was the last time she called you?

I'll give my advise based on this
 

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dude04 said:
she is in another country for 2 weeks. first week we had great contact. we text, email, talk on the phone, and gtalk.

now, she don't contact at all. she reads my email but don't reply back.

should i call her or just wait til she calls me?
She's going away for 2 weeks. In the first week, you talked to her a lot. Now we're in week 2 and you're panicking?

Here's some advice: Get a life of your own. What's the point of her going away to travel if she has to be in constant contact with the people from back home?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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