"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude04

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she is in another country for 2 weeks. first week we had great contact. we text, email, talk on the phone, and gtalk.

now, she don't contact at all. she reads my email but don't reply back.

should i call her or just wait til she calls me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rushing dude 123

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No point in chasing her bro to find out whats the problem, if you have doubt which is what i am assuming you do because you are talking to us. Then just leave her alone and see what she does and that will tell you a lot more about her than anything she could say to you or any sort of technique you could utilise.

When you have a girlfriend the whole point is to not try and game them, they are already yours. So like i said don't do anything, just see if she meets the strandards of girlfriend material by actually contacting you once in a while.
 

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Don't you have a life of your own? Why must you be talking to this girl everyday like some kind of wussy?

If you were to go on another country for 2 weeks would you like somebody buggin you everyday while you're trying to soak in the sights and sounds of this new place you're at?

It doesn't make you look very good to be showing that you're desperate and missing her while she is probably out there having fun.

I'd say stop talking to her till she comes back and stop showing her that she's the one with a life and not you.
 

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ok respond to this
how many days ago did you talk to her for the last time? when was the last time she called you?

I'll give my advise based on this
 

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dude04 said:
she is in another country for 2 weeks. first week we had great contact. we text, email, talk on the phone, and gtalk.

now, she don't contact at all. she reads my email but don't reply back.

should i call her or just wait til she calls me?
She's going away for 2 weeks. In the first week, you talked to her a lot. Now we're in week 2 and you're panicking?

Here's some advice: Get a life of your own. What's the point of her going away to travel if she has to be in constant contact with the people from back home?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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