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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude04

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she is in another country for 2 weeks. first week we had great contact. we text, email, talk on the phone, and gtalk.

now, she don't contact at all. she reads my email but don't reply back.

should i call her or just wait til she calls me?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No point in chasing her bro to find out whats the problem, if you have doubt which is what i am assuming you do because you are talking to us. Then just leave her alone and see what she does and that will tell you a lot more about her than anything she could say to you or any sort of technique you could utilise.

When you have a girlfriend the whole point is to not try and game them, they are already yours. So like i said don't do anything, just see if she meets the strandards of girlfriend material by actually contacting you once in a while.
 

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Don't you have a life of your own? Why must you be talking to this girl everyday like some kind of wussy?

If you were to go on another country for 2 weeks would you like somebody buggin you everyday while you're trying to soak in the sights and sounds of this new place you're at?

It doesn't make you look very good to be showing that you're desperate and missing her while she is probably out there having fun.

I'd say stop talking to her till she comes back and stop showing her that she's the one with a life and not you.
 

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ok respond to this
how many days ago did you talk to her for the last time? when was the last time she called you?

I'll give my advise based on this
 

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dude04 said:
she is in another country for 2 weeks. first week we had great contact. we text, email, talk on the phone, and gtalk.

now, she don't contact at all. she reads my email but don't reply back.

should i call her or just wait til she calls me?
She's going away for 2 weeks. In the first week, you talked to her a lot. Now we're in week 2 and you're panicking?

Here's some advice: Get a life of your own. What's the point of her going away to travel if she has to be in constant contact with the people from back home?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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