we all been in love guys and *****es will always be *****es sometimes its best u learn the hard way sometimes its best u listen when they warn u cause they have been through it all I now have this new girl she calls me everyday but something just not right about her don't know what but something b wrong but time will tell
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girlfriend, Sex, and Her Grasping for Power
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we all been in love guys and *****es will always be *****es sometimes its best u learn the hard way sometimes its best u listen when they warn u cause they have been through it all I now have this new girl she calls me everyday but something just not right about her don't know what but something b wrong but time will tell"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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There are over 3.3 billion women on this planet. Trust me, you will be able to find another who won't disrespect you and who will have all the same characteristics that you like about this current girl without all the bull****.
NEXT!!!!
NEXT!!!!
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Move On.
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Search this forum for Borderline and/or BPD -- bi-polar is often mistakingly diagnosed instead. Huge diff. In either case, that older dude = daddy issues! Run.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.