"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girlfriend, Sex, and Her Grasping for Power

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:D we all been in love guys and *****es will always be *****es sometimes its best u learn the hard way sometimes its best u listen when they warn u cause they have been through it all I now have this new girl she calls me everyday but something just not right about her don't know what but something b wrong but time will tell
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JimmyBizzle

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There are over 3.3 billion women on this planet. Trust me, you will be able to find another who won't disrespect you and who will have all the same characteristics that you like about this current girl without all the bull****.

NEXT!!!!
 

MM92

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I'm hard on him because he made a thread a year ago and we already told this dude to drop the girl. He didn't and things only got worst.

I'm hard on this guy because I did something similar 2 years ago. Made threads about my then gf and I ignored everybodies advice. A year later and thousands of dollars and struggle later she ended it with me.

Many people on this forum know whats going on and you need to listen to these people or just learn the hard way.
I remember what reading it and remember what an idiot you was sticking about. Glad you came to your senses and learnt and are now trying to warn others.
 

Johnnyventana

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Search this forum for Borderline and/or BPD -- bi-polar is often mistakingly diagnosed instead. Huge diff. In either case, that older dude = daddy issues! Run.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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