"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girlfriend says "Her Parents are out of the house"

KKnight

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My girlfriend of 1month + told me her parents are going to be out of the house in about a week. She did NOT necesarily say I should be coming over but I'm a little confused if she is trying to tell me something? I mean it has only been a month and she has been my friend for a year + so would it be an invitation to anything? Help appreciated
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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08aisaac

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Hey damn she souldn't be any clearer in the fact that she wants you to come over. GF of over 4 weeks is definitely wanting you to come over. Just try to get invited over. lol. Or like call her when her parents are out of town and when she says she doesn't have anything to do just ask he rif she wants some company. It's hard to invite your self over to someones house but you are dating her. lol.
 

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Oh i have been to her house many times. Ok to put it more straight forwards you think it might have something to do with sex? Im not trying to rush anything myself but we are very affectionate towards eachother. I guess im basically asking you guys to read her mind, which is kinda hard :| I dunno i guess ill jsut treat it normally.
 

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Step 1. Go Over there and bone the **** out of her.

Step 2. Call everyone you know and throw a party.

Step 3. Come back to this message board and tell everyone how awesome your week was and thank all of us for our suport.

Parents out of the house for a week is not just a nice little conversation piece, she's letting you know that it's game on.
 

08aisaac

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ok so then she might want to kick it up a notch. you have the signal to go. \o/ \o\ /o/ /o\ \o/
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just get urself over 2 her house. she sounds like the kind of girl that will probaly do all the work so u just get ur ass over her house n let her do her job!...damn three guys tellin u 2 go over her house n give her tha time of her life?..shouldnt this tell u somthing?....MAKE US PROUD!!
 

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I want the stills. ;)

AS
 

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She's screaming "come get physical with me" in your ear. So if you want to, do it.
 

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She's basically inviting you over when she says something like this. Don't go over there expecting sex, but just go and see what happens. Who knows :woo:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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In situations where you are trying to read a girls mind there is one thing that you have to remember: GIRLS WANT YOU TO RAIL THE **** OUT OF THEM, EVERY SINGLE LAST ONE!! Social conditioning makes it difficult, but there wont be much of that when your alone with her at her house.
 

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PihiPlaya For The Win.
:)
 

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Thx for the responses. I'll just go to her house and expect nothing really, only to see what will happen. She doesn't really seem like the type of girl that'll want sex after a month+ of a relationship but then again who knows? Only time will tell.
 

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Originally posted by KKnight
Thx for the responses. I'll just go to her house and expect nothing really, only to see what will happen. She doesn't really seem like the type of girl that'll want sex after a month+ of a relationship but then again who knows? Only time will tell.
You clearly dont know women. Understand this: Women all want sex... right now. The only reason they don't do it is because they will get labelled a 'slut'. She wont be if your with her so its a n invite for sex. Just make the necessary moves on her.
 

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Originally posted by Sammo
You clearly dont know women. Understand this: Women all want sex... right now. The only reason they don't do it is because they will get labelled a 'slut'. She wont be if your with her so its a n invite for sex. Just make the necessary moves on her.
Clearly I don't. ;) Ok will do
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by KKnight
Thx for the responses. I'll just go to her house and expect nothing really, only to see what will happen. She doesn't really seem like the type of girl that'll want sex after a month+ of a relationship but then again who knows? Only time will tell.
she has waited 1 month and is telling you that her parents are going to be out of the house which means i am going to have the house to myself and be all alone which means that i wont have to worry about them walking in and finding you ****ing the **** out of me

enjoy
 

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Originally posted by KKnight
Clearly I don't. ;) Ok will do
Good stuff, make sure you let us all know how you go!

Good luck
 

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or it could just meen that her parents are out of the house and she wants to make out without worrying about her parents barging in...
getting her to have sex with u depends on how u play it... read the sex thread someone created on this site... it will help u alot....
 
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